@drewwdaniels: when your partner doesn’t choose to change #anxiousattachment #attachmentstyles #avoidantattachment #abandonmentissues

msa1091 :

There is no objective reality for this, it’s a purely subjective construct to begin with. Their reality does not agree with you having worth. Resisting this reality is crucial to building or maintaining self worth but neither reality is more correct than the other. They really don’t think you’re worth it, and that will hurt whether or not you agree.