@drsarahhensley: Does your partner bring up the past? You either haven’t connected with their pain well enough, you are repeating similar behavior…or stop tolerating is. #boundaries #fearfulavoidant #relationships #marriage #past
I’m a fearful avoidant married to the dismissive avoidant. I bring it up because we literally never resolve any conflict because he withdraws and it builds up because it still hurts me and I want him to understand but he never does.
2026-09-09 20:14:53
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Henk :
thanks girl. it makes so much sence. you will be rewarded for helping us see the light.
2026-09-09 19:17:33
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candi 🌈 🇺🇸🏳️🌈 :
Same behaviors
2026-09-09 19:22:42
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BeautylifewithE :
What if your adult children do this?
2026-09-09 03:06:35
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Bellecourtian :
how about when I present the pattern that he's been displaying for years if he asks why I'm always angry. and immediately says "then let's talk about all the stuff you post on the internet" (he means selling content, which i do not do) and suddenly it's about me, even if i say it's not about me this time.
He says im avoiding it because I'm guilty.
2026-09-09 03:59:24
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Wild Leo ♌️ :
I only brought it up after the first major explosion from her change your actions, honey, and I won’t roar
2026-09-09 04:19:00
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C.man :
💯%
2026-09-09 10:14:29
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