SUNDÈN I Melissawand 🌻
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Layla8084 :
I love my husband, but if I could go back I would not get married again. and I have told him that
2026-09-09 14:27:56
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Deneshnee Moodley :
Single after 15 years of marriage and its the most liberating feeling! No stress of having to take care of an adult kid who criticizes you. The freedom feels like a weight lifted off my shoulders and a breath of fresh air.
2026-10-09 23:49:40
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shani🌹 :
I just said this morning that getting ready married is was the worst decision I ever made in life
2026-10-09 08:16:50
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Body Decor By Natalie :
My 2 cents. I’m 43. Divorced once. Married a second time. 1. Don’t get married in your 20s. Use this time to learn, grow, mature and enjoy life. 2. If you want to get married and have kids do it in your 30s. 3. Before you get married make sure you have a good support system family, friends and financial. Do not make the mistake of relying on a man for your financial support 100%. 4. If it works out great and if it doesn’t great! Life moves on. Life is short and precious so take ownership of your life and happiness married or not. ♥️
2026-10-09 10:24:14
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user8731030076572 :
It’s the absolute truth. NEVER EVER GET MARRIED
2026-09-30 16:59:31
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Sanet Barnard :
It's like looking after a other woman's child else's son
2026-09-09 16:20:33
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Nishana Naidoo :
Yes it's true. We become slaves. When we are young, you are in love and u live in this fairytale belief and once married, reality sets in... Marriage is not what u actually thought it would be ..everything changes more stress more responsibilities etc..
2026-09-09 06:35:58
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larrybyday :
Most married women is not active on social media, only the ones that have bad husbands, seek attention or love to complain are very vocal. Women that celebrate marriage and family are usually ignored because it’s normal and boring, meaning no controversy. Successful marriages exist offline, so don’t let the internet fool you entirely my sister.
2026-09-09 09:06:30
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🇿🇦Suzane✝️Esther🦜🦜🦜 :
It’s not a trend. It’s true. I married young, at the age of 20. I had stars in my eyes because I was taught that marriage and a husband would complete me. I am a professional and I carried the bulk of the financial weight, I worked crazy shifts, took care of the babies, did all the housework, cooked, supported him in every way. He was selfish and entitled. He would save his money, he would relax in front of the TV while I worked late into the night l, there was no conscience whatsoever. To him I was a means to an end. He continued living like he was single, he neglected me and never invested in me. I still fought to make my marriage work for the sake of my boys, waiting on him to change. I waited for 25 years for a miracle and let me tell you, he became worse and by then I was completely detached. I am now 46 years old, I eventually saw my worth and chose myself and I divorced him. It’s the greatest gift I gave myself. I would advise every single young woman out there, DO NOT GET MARRIED. They will seem like they are everything you need and then they start changing, they will change. Marriage was designed by the patriarchy so that even the poorest man could have a slave and that’s the truth. If you choose to marry, ensure that you put yourself first, study, be financially independent, ensure that you have savings and that you become the very best version of yourself. Never shrink yourself or dumb yourself down to make a man comfortable. I wish someone would have told me this as a young woman.
2026-09-09 20:14:54
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sammyx :
marriage is a scam. those women are correct
2026-09-09 06:15:44
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Bubble_30 :
I'm 24 n experienced this these old aunties are negative and jealous. Not every husband makes u a maid we get married knowing that responsibility is shared. They should keep this comments to themselves because of their own insecurities. They at fault coz they did not set boundaries from the start and look after themselves. I literally got zero respect for such ppl n will tell them off if u wanna get married do it everyone's experience will be different we all need companionship if u not happy early then leave not stay n be miserable n then afterwards project it into the world
2026-09-10 06:16:55
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Tiani :
I don’t think it is a trend, I think generations of women felt this way but didn’t have the guts or platform to speak openly about it.
2026-09-10 03:59:40
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Leago Molefe :
I agree..... I was married..... It's a humiliation ritual
2026-09-10 04:35:19
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★mari.k★ :
Marriage is not for the weak. Yes it's hard. But it's an experience that can grow you ND expose your strength ND weekness.
2026-09-09 09:15:50
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Trixie :
Marriage is overrated. Single after 30 years! I feel free and at peace.
2026-09-09 22:29:40
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labrat :
it's like taking over from where their mothers left off..it's not worth it
2026-09-10 14:16:42
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DEE🩷🩷🩵💜 :
Its absolutely true...your husband becomes your son. If u ever see me get married agaim, please shoot me 😁
2026-09-09 19:08:03
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Aaliyah Calvert136 :
i saw a post that said if marriage was a benefit to a female then men wouldve have found a way to ban it
2026-09-10 11:23:06
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sarah_motherhood :
Marry someone who earns enough money to pay for a full time domestic worker and a man who is happy to provide generously without being greedy
2026-09-10 05:05:57
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leeanche en Jolene 💓🥰 :
yes it's true we become slaves
2026-09-09 11:31:56
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Lady Di🕊️ :
Well I believe if they have a God fearing man the marriage will work.
2026-09-09 18:25:11
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Mario GATTO Wanza Tribute Page :
Maybe we should stop all marriages
2026-09-09 10:00:16
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MellyLalla08 :
Best decision was getting married at 35 this year. I enjoyed my late teens, entire 20s to early 30s . Had shitty relationships in the past which was a blessing in disguise but eventually settled with someone I prayed for.
2026-09-10 07:22:57
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Waleedk :
when you get married the husband must be 10 years older then the wife
2026-09-09 06:22:33
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Lizelle Joubert :
Absolutely, do not get married. It will cost you your nervous system, your financial freedom, even your kids.
2026-09-26 14:49:07
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