In marriage (usually), men only get the benefits while women suffer. The enforcement of patriarchal expectations from the society is still weaponizing a woman's independence against her, reframing self-sufficiency as a personal failure 💀
2026-11-02 12:16:09
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XarXi :
heck, my ex and I broke up because he made a "mistake" of using this phrase on me: "but it's your duty as a women to carry my name,child and help me financially. that's how partnership works" lost all my love in just a snap because of that mindset and broke up with him the next day. 🤣😂🤣😂.
2026-11-03 03:31:38
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heyarln3 :
Some still don’t get it😂 it’s fckng slavery
2026-11-02 10:57:14
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gemini✨ :
Marriage is a trap. Read it again!
2026-11-03 02:49:37
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Cassandra :
There was a time when my relatives asked if I had a boyfriend and I answered I don't like having a boyfriend and what's the use of a boyfriend? and he answered "For PLEASURES" and I was like in my head WTH! and my facial expression of him was disgusted. I said "Ew disgusting I don't even have a plan to get married" and he was against it just to annoy me and he said to me "That's a SIN" and I was shocked by what he said and I asked "how can that be a sin???" and he said "It's on the bible even if the nuns are sin too for that, it said after life they will punish and lift the weights of big balls of the man" and I talk back "I think you read a wrong bible uncle that's so disgusting and If being unmarried woman is a sin I would gladly accept it because I cannot imagine my life being tide up of a man and being miserable and really in this economy?!" I cannot anymore argue because of disgust and they even try to brainwash me and said my beauty will be wasted.
2026-11-03 01:03:52
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Onlyjen🌸 :
the smallest cuff is the ring
2026-11-02 21:58:40
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Princess Julie 💎 :
Being unmarried is the only smart way to be
2026-10-07 18:59:09
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leil. :
++ they want 50/50. can pregnancy be 50/50 too?
2026-11-02 14:48:07
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wisco_in_oregon :
We’ve been brainwashed into thinking “this is what we want.” Luckily I never fell for it. Don’t want kids, never getting married.
2026-10-02 19:03:19
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imbitingmyself :
I don’t want to be a mother, I just want a partner.
2026-09-09 06:50:15
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b ((: :
Will never completely change my surname fosho
2026-11-02 03:42:31
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Jamie Renee :
I’m so glad younger women are waking up to this. I’m 46 and didn’t come to this realization until about three years ago. Now I have to live with the consequences of the choices I made in my 20s and 30s. My advice to younger women is to stay single and child free. Protect your peace.
2026-10-02 12:46:43
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𝙃𝘼𝙉𝙕𝙀𝙀 𝙊𝙁𝙁𝙄𝘾𝙄𝘼𝙇 :
LOUDER
2026-11-02 14:31:38
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The_Diva_Gia :
Being unmarried is freedom.
2026-09-09 12:22:14
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777 :
society shamed women into thinking being unmarried must be a bad thing bc no one has “chosen” her. another way to trap us into this lifestyle benefiting men in my opinion 😭😭
2026-10-01 17:55:29
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MoKurls :
I was the unhappiest being married. Single is the life
2026-10-27 21:59:52
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Aussie Jillaroo :
IF MARRIAGE WAS SO AMAZING, MEN WOULD'VE TAKEN IT OFF US YEARS AGO.... 😒
2026-10-08 07:07:04
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Punky🇨🇦 :
It was a ball and chain for me. I left it. Apparently I’d be belittled him cause I no longer wanted to put up with his a narcissistic abuse, emotional and physical.
2026-10-06 00:44:13
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Kgirl :
It’s weird how it’s normal to have the man’s last name. People saying it depends on the guy. But the cultural norms are super weird around it too.
2026-09-09 09:02:57
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tasha :
i want to get married for the legal and healthcare benefits. i want to be allowed to make decisions if he can’t. i want to have access to rooms and conversations only immediate family has. i’m going to hyphenate my last name same with my kids and we are gonna be a partnership for life. that’s how i view marriage at least.
2026-10-08 11:56:24
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Hating for ‘likes’ is not ok :
Because love is the ultimate; if you marry for love you win. Stop making it about anything else.
2026-09-29 12:28:27
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andrada_makeupartist :
Also they make us wait for the ring like marriage benefits us not them lmao
2026-10-23 03:50:29
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nanalovesherppl :
Married 45 years to a GOOD man, DONT get married!
2026-10-04 16:49:53
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⋆˚꩜。F⋆˚꩜。 :
I’m gonna marry another woman idgaf
2026-10-08 18:27:18
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