@lowpeters_: The moment you have to beg for the bare minimum is the moment you’re negotiating against someone’s willingness… What wouldn’t you beg for? #beg #datinglife

IamDrGrant :

A man who leaves you confused has already given you his answer.

Olamide :

Once I feel like I can’t express myself or I’m walking on eggshell, oh well bye

Eirene Eating House :

I need someone to beat the hell out of me because My heart is stubborn

Pearlylocs✨ :

Don’t grow with any man or teach them, most of these things come naturally. If he isn’t doing them it’s likely he doesn’t want to

Aje Positive elijah :

clarity consideration inclusion apology reciprocity

Cam y :

Ԝhаt hеlреd mе mоѕt іn ”Ԝhу Ԝе Chаѕе Ԝhаt Ηurtѕ” ԝаѕ rеаlіꮓіng І керt fаllіng fօr рοtеntіаl. І ԝаѕ аttасhеd tо ԝhο Ι thօught thеу ϲоuld bеᴄοmе͵ nоt hοԝ thеү ԝеrе аᴄtuаllу trеаtіng mе.

DoyinSMM🤍 :

Don’t confuse someone’s occasional effort with their willingness.Anyone can do the bare minimum once in a while. The real question is whether they are willing to show up without you having to repeatedly beg, threaten to leave, break down, or convince them that you deserve it. You shouldn’t have to build a courtroom case for why you deserve basic consideration.Sometimes, the answer isn’t to ask better.Sometimes, it’s to observe better.

Zulaihat_B :

That’s why you need to be with a considerate,empathetic and a kind person “emphasis on kindness cause it goes a long way even when they don’t feel you anymore❤️

Mbali :

I begged for all 5, thankfully the relationship is over now and the peace I have now is incomparable

Rochxelle.xo 🌸 :

Heavy on basic consideration!! You actually hate me

CertifiedYapper :

Never beg a man to treat you with basic human respect. Once he shows you who he is, act accordingly. Even if he gets mad because you’re acting accordingly, don’t succumb to his feelings. Instead of believe what it is that you saw and keep it pushing.

Stillbymi_ :

You sound like Cat burns 🥰

Liv :

To summarize all of these she has said,a man who genuinely loves you,I don’t mean lust ooo,I mean genuinely loves you will do all of this without you even having to say the word.People know what they are doing with everyone.

J_mone5🥷🏾 :

Every point made was valid

Pearl🥰🥰 :

Your page has been very helpful especially as a first daughter,my life has improved too

jennybrain :

ITS DISGUSTING‼️

Debbz Apparel :

Basically all that you mentioned

Daphne :

"If you're building a life with me...I have a natural place in those things that you attend!!!"

Zo_edwa🖤🐾 :

Heavy on consideration, inclusion n reciprocity !!!

Vincent A Casey Sr. :

When basic consideration has to be repeatedly begged for, the conversation usually becomes bigger than the specific need. At some point, you have to pay attention to whether the person is struggling to understand you or simply unwilling to show up differently.

amy :

💯

Chanel 'Destiny' Har :

⭐️~Jin~⭐️ :

Ι dіdn’t ехреᴄt thіѕ bοοĸ tо hіt mе thаt hаrd. ″Ԝhү Ԝе Chаѕе Ԝhаt Нurtѕ” hеlреd mе undеrѕtаnd ԝhү І ϲоuld ѕее еvеrү rеd flаg ᴄlеаrlу аnd ѕtіll fееl lіке lеаvіng ԝаѕ thе ԝrоng dесіѕіоn.

Reksbraidsright :

Is it okay or I’m tripping, my boyfriend of 8 months has only said that he loves me 3 times even though I have said it a lot of times I love to hear it. Is this a reason for break up? 🥺