@ben_thinking: Women have finely tuned BS radars. This is why nice guys never last. Being nice is exhibiting a performative kindness to get something out of someone. Kindness is genuine. Women know the difference inherently. #tipsformen #adviceformen #datingadvice #psychologytricks
Some of the kindest men are rough around the edges
2026-09-10 20:31:32
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cas :
nice has an intention, kind is a state of being
2026-09-10 23:31:37
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indianhill85 :
Nice=fear, Kind=empathy
2026-09-09 17:59:40
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ajhew :
Performance vs authenticity
2026-09-14 18:22:06
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fuck ice :
My wife tells me I'm a good person, but not really a nice person, and it's my favorite compliment.
2026-09-10 07:41:44
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meganne :
this one can have a microphone
2026-09-11 03:22:17
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Abitha_Music :
I’m one of the grumpiest dudes, but I’m kind as hell. There def is a difference between nice and kind. Love this.
2026-09-10 22:56:14
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NoiseComet :
one can be nice and not be good
2026-09-10 23:26:36
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Kirtina Walker :
oh you and Kyle need to turn those mics up LOUD
2026-09-13 02:14:09
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jesssulli :
and if we think we don't know our bodies know
2026-09-13 00:52:44
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Avocado Slut :
Wrong. We cannot always tell the difference….immediately. It usually takes 5-10 business months
2026-09-09 13:02:23
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fulltime_daydreamer :
Keanu Reeves (kind) > Ryan Reynolds (nice)
2026-09-11 15:42:30
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Lauren Oppelt :
You may have a podcast
2026-09-12 23:58:55
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Lady Spaghettio of Planet Mars :
Kind and generous vs "nice" and transactional. The second one makes my skin crawl.
2026-09-13 01:37:06
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Tina 💗 :
Yes. I call it the “used car salesman” behavior
2026-09-10 20:19:34
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Taylored Takes :
Why does nice have to keep being used in a negative way? Those words mean basically the same thing.
2026-09-10 15:52:46
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FanDanceInk :
Kind men are kind whether you’re there or not.
2026-09-11 13:16:23
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Fe🌚 :
Nice guys also feel the need to tell you how nice they are multiple times
2026-09-11 12:58:45
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kristiemccrady :
I don’t trust “nice” men!!
2026-09-10 23:45:17
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Chunky Cat :
Damn bro. Well said.
2026-09-11 00:12:38
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yourmommy :
Some of the biggest aholes are the ones who are the softest and kindest. Nice guys always remind you that they were nice to you and that you’re not grateful enough
2026-09-10 22:51:53
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𝙻𝚘𝙻𝚘 𝙳𝚊𝙷𝚘𝚛𝚊 :
if "women can always tell the difference" then I know a lot of women who just choose not to care then 😅
2026-09-09 18:15:12
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Hannah Nichols :
I love my kind man 🥰
2026-09-09 19:23:06
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BonusJake :
You just have to be good looking and a little funny.
2026-09-10 23:37:36
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