@ben_thinking: Women have finely tuned BS radars. This is why nice guys never last. Being nice is exhibiting a performative kindness to get something out of someone. Kindness is genuine. Women know the difference inherently. #tipsformen #adviceformen #datingadvice #psychologytricks

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baily.a
Baily A :
Nice is a manipulation. Kind is authentic.
2026-09-10 18:24:13
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esothetic
Claudia Kincaid :
Some of the kindest men are rough around the edges
2026-09-10 20:31:32
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cor.cas
cas :
nice has an intention, kind is a state of being
2026-09-10 23:31:37
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indianhill85
indianhill85 :
Nice=fear, Kind=empathy
2026-09-09 17:59:40
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hewaj
ajhew :
Performance vs authenticity
2026-09-14 18:22:06
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user3608764532
fuck ice :
My wife tells me I'm a good person, but not really a nice person, and it's my favorite compliment.
2026-09-10 07:41:44
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meegannee
meganne :
this one can have a microphone
2026-09-11 03:22:17
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abitha_music
Abitha_Music :
I’m one of the grumpiest dudes, but I’m kind as hell. There def is a difference between nice and kind. Love this.
2026-09-10 22:56:14
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noisecomet
NoiseComet :
one can be nice and not be good
2026-09-10 23:26:36
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miss_kissie_pooh
Kirtina Walker :
oh you and Kyle need to turn those mics up LOUD
2026-09-13 02:14:09
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jesssulli
jesssulli :
and if we think we don't know our bodies know
2026-09-13 00:52:44
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avocadoslut
Avocado Slut :
Wrong. We cannot always tell the difference….immediately. It usually takes 5-10 business months
2026-09-09 13:02:23
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fulltime_daydreamer
fulltime_daydreamer :
Keanu Reeves (kind) > Ryan Reynolds (nice)
2026-09-11 15:42:30
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laurenoppelt
Lauren Oppelt :
You may have a podcast
2026-09-12 23:58:55
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ladyspaghettio
Lady Spaghettio of Planet Mars :
Kind and generous vs "nice" and transactional. The second one makes my skin crawl.
2026-09-13 01:37:06
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tinamranalle
Tina 💗 :
Yes. I call it the “used car salesman” behavior
2026-09-10 20:19:34
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tayloredtakesgonemild
Taylored Takes :
Why does nice have to keep being used in a negative way? Those words mean basically the same thing.
2026-09-10 15:52:46
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fanquiry
FanDanceInk :
Kind men are kind whether you’re there or not.
2026-09-11 13:16:23
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smartmouthmom
Fe🌚 :
Nice guys also feel the need to tell you how nice they are multiple times
2026-09-11 12:58:45
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kristiemccrady
kristiemccrady :
I don’t trust “nice” men!!
2026-09-10 23:45:17
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chunky_cat_622
Chunky Cat :
Damn bro. Well said.
2026-09-11 00:12:38
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yourmommy
yourmommy :
Some of the biggest aholes are the ones who are the softest and kindest. Nice guys always remind you that they were nice to you and that you’re not grateful enough
2026-09-10 22:51:53
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logansings
𝙻𝚘𝙻𝚘 𝙳𝚊𝙷𝚘𝚛𝚊 :
if "women can always tell the difference" then I know a lot of women who just choose not to care then 😅
2026-09-09 18:15:12
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hooniebanoonie
Hannah Nichols :
I love my kind man 🥰
2026-09-09 19:23:06
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bonusjake0000
BonusJake :
You just have to be good looking and a little funny.
2026-09-10 23:37:36
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