Ella1975 :
Twenty-three years ago, it was love at first sight for us. This person (LIBRA) is my soulmate, the love of my life. He is me, and I am him. We are one.
Everyone who has heard about our separation is shocked, because nobody can understand how this could have happened. Everyone says, “You two are the very last couple we ever would have expected to break up.”
And he himself told me that if someone had told him three months ago that all of this would happen, he would have replied, “Not in a million years.”
He left me three weeks ago. He fell in love with another woman and says that he can no longer imagine his life without her — even though he has only known her for five weeks. And apparently, 23 years together, including 16 years of marriage, suddenly mean nothing anymore.
What makes this even harder for me is the timing. Just three months ago, we were at the notary’s office regarding our joint will. Three months ago, we opened a new joint bank account. And ten weeks ago, we spent thousands of euros on new furniture together.
What makes this even more difficult for me is that I simply cannot shake the feeling that something about this entire situation is deeply unusual. I cannot fully explain it, and I do not want to present anything as a fact that I cannot prove.
But sometimes I have the feeling that there could be something spiritual connected to this woman and to what is happening right now — almost as if there were something dark about her, something connected to the devil.
It is not only a feeling I have because I am hurt. The man I have known and loved for 23 years — my husband and my best friend — suddenly seems so different. Almost as if something inside him has completely changed.
I don’t know what is happening right now. I don’t know whether there really is anything spiritual behind it, and I cannot say that there is. But I cannot ignore this deep feeling that something about this entire situation is profoundly unlike him.
And despite everything, deep in my heart, I still believe that our story has not been completely written yet.
2026-09-09 20:32:42