She moved out with her 4 kids? He should have said he would move out so the kids could stay in the home.
2026-09-09 19:36:01
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Heather Bailey :
its his responsibility to heal from his past hes not showing the want to work
2026-09-09 17:05:32
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AggieRed :
It’s every adults’ responsibility to ensure they heal from their childhood. It’s not cool to drag that trauma out onto other people. He definitely should not have become a father before dealing with his personal problems. This is how generation trauma continues.
2026-09-09 18:13:38
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Autumn💜 :
girl run......
2026-09-09 14:41:04
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KimpanzeeD :
I feel her pain. My ex had suffered horrible abuse which made him emotionally unavailable for me and our kids. He also had issues with infidelity. I made excuses for him for way too long. I wanted him to heal and engage so badly. The truth was that he didn’t want to face it. He’d rather lose a 33 year marriage than to truly engage in therapy. It’s heartbreaking.
2026-09-09 18:10:06
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Ms. G :
His childhood isn’t an excuse to not heal as an adult
2026-09-10 12:34:32
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KrispyCritter1010 :
This part….. hit hard
2026-09-09 19:18:56
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Kentucky Texan :
I can understand her pain and inner conflict. This was great advice.
2026-09-09 18:05:19
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Jess :
Girl run. Don’t look back.
2026-09-09 19:12:53
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Sjdoxies :
Girl stop considering him and consider the kids first. Get. Out. Now.
2026-09-10 17:02:17
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HZUCHELLI :
thr paranoia is fake it's projection
2026-09-09 23:19:56
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Trinity_Spiritual_Healer :
Girl, you gave enough, you dont owe him YOUR life.
You are such a good person, you need a healed person, like yourself.
Choose YOU and your kids learn to choose themselves too. ✌🙏
2026-09-10 15:59:09
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Preceptor :
Ma'am...run
2026-09-09 13:32:27
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Hannah :
Hey so none of this has anything to do with any of his gear 🤣
2026-09-10 04:20:31
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Cereaza :
Love when me and Delony have the same reaction cause,,, girl that question evolved like 4 times.
2026-09-10 15:42:59
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Amy :
He was right to focus on the children's wellbeing and not just her feelings of betrayal/guilt. She is also responsible for her choices as their parent and they 100% need to be protected from their dad.
2026-09-09 18:50:41
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angel🪽 :
Ugh..to love someone who can’t get it together and to share kids with them..I feel so sorry for them😪 mom I pray for your strength and guidance
2026-09-09 18:18:37
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God's Girl :
Sister, I've gone through very similar situations for 25 years! I excused his behavior because I understood the Psychology behind it. The reason doesn't matter. It made me physically, emotionally and spiritually sick. My body was trying to shut down while simultaneously staying in Flight/Fight. I'm 8 weeks separated and struggling to keep my health in check. I have a long recovery because I stayed and tolerated his behavior too long. This will make you sick, and will cause your children harm. They need to see you stand up for them and yourself. Praying for you.
2026-09-09 22:59:06
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debbie :
again it's the children that suffer the most. this changes how and who these kids will turn out to be.😏
2026-09-09 20:31:07
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AStarIsBorn :
He wasn’t agonizing about his decisions
2026-09-09 23:42:48
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dontdrinkhaterade :
what about you girl
2026-09-09 23:55:45
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Haley Daniels :
Ugh this breaks my heart. 😔 Reminds me of a past relationship, but I luckily didn’t have kids to factor into the situation
2026-09-09 21:25:24
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