@the.psychguide: There are lots of little behaviours that become problematic for couples, but these are 5 major ones. Doing any of these consistently almost always lead to problems in the relationship. To stop these, it’s important that you both agree that these have to change, which gives permission to both people to try and call them out when they happen, and work towards catching, and reducing these behaviours. #psychologist #couplestherapy #relationships #psychoeducation #couples
I think sometimes the emotions have to come out and while yelling isn't great it's a way to get rid of the built up adrenaline so you don't feel like you're raging inside.
2026-10-01 13:34:18
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majortom8461 :
Is name calling and mocking part of contempt?
And what if they don't outright attack your core until they're very angry but what they do is, say little things like I have a degree I was able to get through school I'm smart. To me it feels like my partner is trying to get at me with that because yes I had some trouble getting through but now I have a bachelor's.
2026-09-24 14:33:28
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pschy. of. love :
I do that a lot, when I'm angry, I leave for sometime
2026-09-10 07:19:43
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Crystal67 :
I always say don’t go in guns blazing, cause all they’ll see are the guns
2026-09-10 00:57:22
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Abbie Myers :
I have such a hard time not rolling my eyes. I don’t even notice I’m doing it. How do I fix it?
2026-09-12 18:18:31
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I thought “holding position” was just another dating buzzword until I understood what Lorian Kade actually meant. It has almost nothing to do with acting cold. That part is seriously interesting.
2026-09-30 23:55:25
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𝓖𝓾𝓽𝓲 :
I finally understood what Lorian Kade means by “position” after reading that part. It isn’t acting cold or pretending not to care. It’s something much harder to fake.
2026-09-30 23:55:26
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LUZ :
Lorian Kade goes into why men can know every dating “rule” and still completely lose themselves when they actually care about the outcome. That might be the most interesting part of this whole thing.
2026-09-30 23:55:26
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𝓐𝓲𝓵𝔂 :
The Lorian Kade stuff about “position” is honestly insane. Not the usual “be confident” nonsense either. He’s talking about the place you’re coming from before you even say anything.
2026-09-30 23:55:27
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