@taniakhazaal: At some point, you have to stop blaming your parents for everything wrong in your life. Yes, your childhood shaped you. Your parents got things wrong, made mistakes.But they were human too. Healing isn’t spending the rest of your life finding new reasons they’re responsible for who you are today. There comes a point where your life becomes your responsibility. #parents #MomsofTikTok #parentsoftiktok #mindsetmotivation #momlife
This is the kind of post that tells defensive parents exactly what they want to hear. The adult child is “rewriting,” “looking for evidence,” “blaming,” and “stuck,” while whatever the parent actually did gets softened into “human mistakes.” You have no idea what happened in those homes, so you cannot possibly know that. A serious estrangement expert would separate ordinary parenting mistakes from repeated harm, blame from accountability, rumination from understanding, apology from repair, and impulsive cutoff from years of failed attempts to fix a relationship. They would challenge adult children when they are wrong and parents when they are wrong. Instead, this gives already-defensive parents a new vocabulary for dismissing their child: “You’re rewriting your childhood. You’re looking for trauma. You need to move on.” Then that parent takes those words back into an already damaged relationship, dismisses their child one more time, and wonders why the distance gets greater. You’re not helping families repair when you teach one side how to explain away what the other side has been trying to tell them.
2026-09-09 18:12:05
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Buzzybbbbbb :
Yup my sibling is just like this like bruh the most traumatic part of your childhood was having to give up your room for one week a year when grandparents came to visit
2026-09-15 07:08:13
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Jason Munro :
"If you look for the bad in people expecting to find it, you surely will." Lincoln
2026-09-09 15:39:07
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April :
Pop psychology has done that.
2026-09-12 08:53:12
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thewayitis0904 :
Please Keep talking! You can change this drama!
2026-09-10 00:51:00
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Atomic Auburn :
It's fascinating that you feel accountability only flows one way.
2026-09-11 18:24:50
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stefanlange758 :
ragebait bs. im not re doing anything. there is no logical explanataion for bankrupt after getting tons lf retirement bonus as an officer who works 35 years. now imagine what kind of a childhold we lived 😂
2026-09-14 22:11:55
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5660 :
Councillors always brings up childhoods
2026-09-14 09:29:47
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mr_lashley88 :
someone actually finds the courage to to walk away from the real abuse they endured for yearssssss at the hands of the person(s) who should have been nurturing them at their most vulnerable and you condense that abuse into "human mistakes". Give me a break!!
2026-09-10 01:03:56
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Wonderful Belgium ❤️ :
Thank you for talking about this 🙏🏼
2026-09-09 16:18:37
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Genie In A Nutshell :
I have written a book from broken to healing my one child is still not speaking to me and even keeping my grandchildren away from me... my heart is sad and broken.
2026-09-11 06:19:56
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Kitty Page :
mmhmm
2026-09-12 21:01:04
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Mukoti Magy :
Social media
2026-09-10 00:04:25
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Sally :
She is NOT talking about real abuse people.
2026-09-12 15:57:55
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Gothamcity :
everytime mental immaturity
2026-09-10 05:56:52
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The_Bolter013 :
Gaslighting at its finest....
2026-09-14 19:17:20
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Louisa Essen :
👏
2026-09-09 16:42:25
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SKG05 :
👏👏👏
2026-09-09 18:30:51
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