@unpunishablewoman: Decentering men means examining how much of your identity, money, beliefs, attention and life direction have been organized around men and deciding for yourself what deserves to remain at the center.
😩 Stop giving them the benefit of the doubt and start doubting their benefit 👏🏾.
2026-09-10 09:09:33
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MsJennings :
Decentering men actually led me to deconstructing Christianity. Misogyny is deeply embedded in the Bible, and once I started questioning that, I started questioning everything. It’s one of those threads you pull and suddenly the whole sweater starts unraveling. You have to be ready to do the work once you start pulling.
2026-09-13 04:15:30
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Elizabeth Reed for Pinal AZ :
I recently found out about an all female pool party meet up event and I was so excited! But then I thought "what do I even wear (without men there to look at me)?" and I realized how much more work I need to do on this...
2026-09-09 17:45:03
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phoebs :
i love being a lesbian
2026-09-09 19:08:20
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Alma :
Off topic - you are glowing differently lately! 🌹
2026-09-09 18:17:07
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Paola :
Decenter that husband, recenter yourself and let them center themselves..
2026-09-09 18:36:33
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Kika :
Decenter men to be able to focus on centering yourself and your own needs.
2026-09-09 18:40:35
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aej_215 :
When I de centered men I met a great guy 😂
2026-09-09 18:30:43
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Yolanda276 :
I don't have any interest in men. My focus is on my life. I'm not going to have any men interfere with my peace.
2026-09-09 17:53:33
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TiredInMs :
decentering men has helped my husband and sons become better humans
2026-09-09 21:04:46
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Patti-Divorce Mentor for women :
I'm completely focused on me. That's it.
2026-09-10 12:37:31
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✦ lee ✦ :
As a Christian I 100% agree, especially when you mention interdependence. Marriage is an equal partnership & I will never put any man above my faith nor rely on him for validation, because that is what my God is for.
2026-09-16 15:02:30
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pamspawpatrol :
I actually just divorced my husband and your advice was part of my learning
2026-09-12 11:43:42
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Minz :
I don’t even decenter men. I center myself! Men are not a factor, so I don’t change my life even if I’m single or taken.
2026-09-14 06:14:48
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blunt_perspective :
A meet up??!! PLS COME TO TEXAS
2026-09-10 15:16:31
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kingkadeeee :
Your account is so important to me.
2026-09-10 04:43:50
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starseedbitches :
I listen to you whilst I walk my dog and you make me feel like the baddest person on earth. Thank you for helping me see things differently 🙏🏾🙏🏾 you are doing the best for US ladies 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽your podcast is so dope !!!
2026-09-09 17:47:04
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Cristina :
you look great with the hair like that 🥰
2026-09-09 18:09:28
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Effesparkle fitness/ lifestyle :
When I decentered my ex husband, he became restless and showed me his true colours and I divorced him immediately 😂😂😂
2026-09-19 14:01:51
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amora :
i’m heading straight to your bio
2026-09-09 18:47:46
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just.me.kee :
Intentionally single for 8 years - childfree too. I'm so happy and peaceful 🥰
2026-09-11 10:28:48
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josephinemafogue :
You're so'oo pretty 🌹.....& with brain✨️
2026-09-09 21:37:56
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MissesPOV :
Love your hair 🥰
2026-09-09 20:09:31
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Thulz Explores|| Travel :
My mother always says that society wants us to treat men as a gods.
2026-10-13 12:56:58
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Black Rose :
Do men centre women first of all
2026-09-12 20:45:33
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