@dobetterjonathan: They don’t judge me if the house is messy… they judge her. So I clean to make sure they see her the way I do. ❤️ #dobetter #cleaningmotivation #mentalload #marriagetips #menwhoclean
yes, us women are more relaxed & actually enjoy time when things around us are clean and put away
2026-09-09 18:36:42
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Jaytee9876 :
I judge the husband because it means he’s probably not helping his wife. Both live in the home, both are responsible to clean it
2026-09-09 19:58:47
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Li :
Also, it’s RESPECTFUL to YOUR friends to have them over in a clean house. It says they’re worthy and you take pride in your home.
2026-09-10 01:07:48
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BlackbeltMomma🇨🇦 :
And SHE notices that you did that.
2026-09-09 19:47:03
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POWER MOVE :
This is such a bad take
2026-09-10 11:56:54
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sfghs :
Even if the woman work just as much as the husband, she is still viewed as the one responsible for the house chores. No one cares that she works as much as him and is overworked. Yet society doesn’t judge the men who can’t provide for their family as harshly and ppl will blame the economy and not him
2026-09-10 12:28:40
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Polly Popperz :
and don’t ask her to give u tasks before u start!!! just look around and clean whatever needs doing. vacuuming, trash, dishes, & laundry is plenty to keep u busy & then if she needs u to do something specific she can redirect u.
2026-09-10 06:31:59
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hooboa12 :
Fr if your gf says I’d prefer the place clean for guests just listen to her as it just makes us feel happier and more in control
2026-09-10 12:13:11
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_meowcow :
OR as the woman you keep it clean and then his friends and family think you’re overcontrolling the home and that his personality doesn’t show in the home (the personality it had before I showed up was bugs. The personality was bugs)
2026-09-09 20:54:34
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Camcamok :
A man who gets it! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
2026-09-10 13:17:51
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Amanda | Geek Details :
“My mom won’t care, she’s coming to see us.” Her first words were to my infant son telling him that mommy didn’t love him enough to wipe the baby prints off the toy the baby was actively playing with before her arrival. 👀
2026-09-10 04:13:46
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Marie-Sophie :
I’ve never paid so much attention to anyone in a Chiefs jersey
2026-09-09 21:29:14
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Hatbeardglasses :
Removed my like for chiefs/mahomes jersey.
2026-09-09 23:25:34
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Kelly Allen :
Hate your jersey but love the message 🥰
2026-09-09 22:43:50
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Snifsnif :
Yes and also if it’s your friends you should pay and put together and food for guests like a grown adult rather than have her prepare. Even if she loves to do it, should be your wallet and you need to help
2026-09-09 23:12:05
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Loriem :
yo, thanks for the framing/perspective shift!
2026-09-10 04:21:15
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Punk Barbie :
Men care. They don’t always realize why they’re uncomfortable but it’s because there’s clutter/the house is messy.
2026-09-09 21:35:43
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bbbbAthena :
we love your thoughts on these things Sir
2026-09-09 17:58:47
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Amy In Ohio :
Your friends are assholes if they think it’s her job to keep it clean.
2026-09-09 22:52:47
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Malstok :
They care if the house is clean and they should judge you not her
2026-09-09 21:17:54
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Laura :
Actually, they do care and they're gonna use your messy house to criticize their own wives. That's exactly what they do.
2026-09-09 21:12:33
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@rich-brownenterprises :
It’s literally this simple
2026-09-09 23:50:41
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KJ :
Thank you. FINALLY
2026-09-10 02:42:32
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Inspowered :
I don’t give a hoot who notices or who judges me on it. It’s our house and we keep it clean and if someone doesn’t think it’s clean enough, don’t come
2026-09-10 08:09:45
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Stephanie :
Keep it up. But also I literally do not care when someone else’s house is a little messy and lived in bc mine is the same. Dirty and disgusting are different.
2026-09-09 20:38:08
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