me calling it no contact then realizing it’s actually just not talking ever again 😅 idk how to get thru it
2026-09-09 22:54:39
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Nick Hurley :
See I think more along the lines of “if I wait another week it’ll be closer to a more appropriate time to break no contact”
2026-09-09 20:51:00
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alice :
i hate the phrase “no contact” because it tells my brain it’s just a phase… it’s not just a phase. he can’t be in my life any more, i have to find a way to live without him not just right now, or this week, but forever. it is killing me.
2026-09-10 14:05:26
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Citizens Against Eversource :
The slow realization that its for eternity 😅😅
2026-09-09 23:59:25
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beckyvoorhees :
So idk if this is a healthy coping mechanism but I literally text ChatGPT every time I feel the urge to reach out to him and it actually helps 😅 my emotional support chat
2026-09-10 01:57:13
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loretta :
I broke it this week after 5 weeks of silence and cussed him out
Unfortunately it’s for you/us. If someone truly wanted to communicate, endure ruptures and communicate, there wouldn’t be no contact. It’s a healing phase?
2026-09-12 04:51:32
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Chantel Mare :
and then almost 10 months later... its just one more... .. .
2026-09-12 13:03:35
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Maximus :
after 6 months I realized that she would never come back
still have this little tiny hope to see her again but that will not happen
it is what it is
2026-09-11 15:33:06
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christine 🍒 :
That slow realisation that no contact is actually a choice to not be involved in each others lives
2026-09-12 01:08:32
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Aaron :
Fighting the urge to text her everyday never struggled so hard
2026-09-10 04:12:04
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Apple User523458 :
This Friday makes 3 weeks of no contact and the 14th makes one month of official cutting each other off. I’m doing way better than I thought I would. God is good.
2026-09-09 22:42:25
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emma :
then at a certain point you realize that it’s just over 😭😭
2026-09-10 12:23:02
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Margie :
The longer we go the better I feel so.. 🤷🏼♀️
2026-09-10 09:25:17
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żaba>:} :
It's really difficult and it hurts a lot, I have to keep reminding myself he doesn't love me
2026-09-10 08:47:46
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Anna 🇩🇰 :
This was me and it was absolute torture. Every. Single. Day. Checking and counting days, weeks, months over and over again.. i couldn’t do more than 6 weeks and he replied and we are back together.
2026-09-10 14:05:53
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la negra 💕 | 🇺🇸 :
28 days…….. i just need 3 more days and then im officially, able to say im done counting the weeks…. because ill then be able to say its been 1 month. and then i can focus on next month and the end of the year. :/
2026-09-09 23:04:51
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noahbabcock29 :
how long do I give a fearful avoidant space for
2026-09-09 18:40:30
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brittany :
Thank you for making me laugh my ass off. 8 weeks in 😭
2026-09-09 21:37:11
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victoria2005🇺🇸✝️ :
I’m blocked after I broke no contact at 5 months. It’s now 7.5 months without talking.
2026-09-09 20:20:02
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