Nicola
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ellasmellA :
i’m manifesting some good luck to come your way
2026-09-09 18:47:36
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charlotteashleigh :
Nicola - I’ve donated, but please know that I do not care what you spend it on, therapy, food, fluffy socks, a book, PJs. Do what helps you in the moment. Life is sooooo tough ❤️
2026-09-09 19:10:28
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vessy1 :
Walking away from a narcissistic mother doesn’t always feel as freeing as we might expect. Back in 2008 until 2011, I clung to a relationship to feel brave enough to make steps to break free from her hold. When I did finally break free, I thought I’d feel so strong and happy, but the psychological damage done over decades isn’t fixed. This is the first brave step and then slowly you have to learn to build yourself up and heal the damage. I think staying at your sisters and finding your way forwards from there would be good. If you get a job then use it for some therapy and even hypnotherapy to retrain some of these old thinking patterns. They say depression is anger turned in on yourself and I believe that’s true. If we had to stuff down lots of emotional pain and put up with lots of cruel behaviour then all that hurt turns back in on us. Take one day at a time. Join a library and look at the self help books.
2026-09-12 08:24:45
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sofchii_🎀 :
girl, please please go onto UC website and apply! once youve applied you'll most likely get an appointment, tell them everything, that was the 1st step I did to help my mum. UC isnt a lot but its something to keep you going! its ok to cry, and if you need any help my inbox is always open!
2026-09-09 18:52:55
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drop0ut_x :
Hi Nicola 👋🏽 You just popped up on my fyp with a previous video. Please don’t lose hope, and don’t believe what the naysayers say. Talking from experience it will get better, I promise you. Is there any possibility you can see a GP or even a mental health nurse? The nurses are generally better than the GP’s. Take things day by day, which is hard to do, but take it one day at a time. Even if you tick one thing off the list a day, it’s a win. If you need anything or someone to talk to, my dm’s are open 💛
2026-09-09 18:57:07
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《♡ αℓҽx ♡》 :
do they have some sort of job resource center there? that helps you apply for work, fixing up your resume and cover letters, has a listing of openings, stuff like that? even a newcomers center might have those type of resources too
2026-09-15 06:53:22
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hcfjjj55 :
If you see signs of depression pls share it with a person you trust
2026-09-09 18:48:25
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NomadicRaven :
It’s mad but I’ve been in your situation for 3+ years. No one is coming to save you! Embrace it and find a way to make it work. Live in my car and wildcamping etc be more positive…. It’s freedom! You can go and do what ever you want, yeah it’s a worrying situation but you get use to it and once you accept what is then you will be free from everything you fear. Good luck 🙏🏻
2026-09-10 08:59:46
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𓇢☾ 𓂃 ࣪˖ :
bsfs noww dw we all got you🫶
2026-09-09 18:44:16
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lorenstevens0 :
babe get on UC! you are doing great, stay positive it'll all be worth it in long run x
2026-09-09 20:39:59
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unseeher :
Girl get into modelling your gorgeous!!
2026-09-10 02:09:51
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DG♈️ :
I’m in Preston if you don’t mind a sofa and a cat
2026-09-10 16:42:01
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Mand :
I’ve been in your situation. Even with a child, the council were worse than useless. You have to come at it assuming it’s on you to get out of this situation. Universal Credits first, that will give you money for basic housing and essentials. Then see your Dr for AD’s to support you until you’re back on your feet. I started renting a small annexe from a local lady, now I’m in my dream house (rented). It took 4 years. Some of the stops on the way were not ideal but you have to accept them as steps on the journey. Cheering you on girl 👏❤️💪🏼
2026-09-11 06:50:28
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user41290561838 :
DID SENT U MESSAGE TO HELP U BUT NO REPLY SO WHATS GOING ON AND HOW MANY PEOPLE HAVE SAID THE SOMETHING LIKE ME 🤔
2026-09-12 10:19:14
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💕💕 :
Apply for all jobs you can do in your area
2026-09-09 21:44:41
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dulseeyuh :
trying to navigate homelessness whilst also dealing with mental health must be so overwhelming but it will get better girlie💞💞💞 i’m manifesting everything good for you
2026-09-09 18:51:45
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claireac :
Just donated🫶🏼 you’ll get through this girl
2026-09-09 22:41:46
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Meliha Kurdî :
@Meliha Kurdî: Madame, je sais que c’est dur mais faut vous imaginer un avenir radieux, heureux et fabuleux !! Parce que faire taire ses pensées ou penser négatif va vous laisser à la même place et ce n’est pas le but de la vie. J’espère que vous irez mieux et que tout sera meilleur pour vous très bientôt 🫶♥️
2026-09-09 18:55:14
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Gary Nimmo367 :
ive a spare room if you need help its there for you nothing weard but im in scotland next 2 the sea
2026-09-09 21:15:00
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ִֶָ. ..𓂃 ࣪ ִֶָ🪽་༘࿐ :
Your feelings are so valid. I am so proud of you for persevering. Can you get paid through Tik Tok? I’m not sure what it’s like in the UK as I’m in Aus
2026-09-12 09:31:08
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Someone Called Sophie :
i went through 3 months of depression that i now know was more about hopelessness. how about looking at roonshares, and printing out the ones you know you will eventually be able to afford ? it a tiny step. maybe even go to one prtending to be who you want to be in one year times, it kinda primes the brain for sucess. be prepared to fail a few times and keep doing it until you feel good pretending. much love
2026-09-11 11:13:18
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ceevictoriax :
Well I think you look like a very well put together woman and you articulate yourself very well. Brighter days aren’t too far away, you’re being incredibly strong🩷 please keep going xx
2026-09-10 19:56:36
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Nat_Scrolls :
hi Nicola- I know you've said your sister can help but if she can't please make sure you reach out for help. Hostels can be a respite while you're trying to find your feet and are nothing to be ashamed off. Ive struggles with depression but lucky to have a job and roof over my head. it happens and there's nothing to be ashamed of. some of us can't help it naturally and when you're in this situation of course it will be worse. please just latch on to all the help you can get! even if that's someone on this app. xxx
2026-09-11 20:37:11
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user8876618964143 :
Is the council helping you xx
2026-09-10 17:10:24
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𝕮𝖆𝖗𝖆 💖⛓️ :
You’re not alone gal. There’s someone on one of your previous videos offering free Homeless advocacy you should definitely look into that!
2026-09-10 10:03:40
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