the whole "you don't owe anybody anything" movement RUINED relationships of all kinds
2026-09-10 06:20:51
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2020 can eat me :
Inconvenience is the price of community
2026-09-09 19:32:54
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amy :
Even if you don’t drive. You can’t tell me that you can’t take the train or the bus for 1 day??? Or take an uber???
2026-09-10 11:26:53
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Nicole :
I don't agree with the showing up when you don't feel like it. because sometimes that looks like silently crying at someone's birthday dinner. and the birthday person deserves to have the attention on them.
2026-09-10 11:11:16
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✨️ℬℯ𝓁𝓁𝓈✨️ :
even if you're tired and not feeling social, you should at least show up for 20 minutes.
2026-09-09 20:27:53
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⊹ ࣪ 𝐒𝐄𝐕𝐕𝐈𝐄 ˖ ᡣ𐭩 :
just cut a friend off bc they decided they needed to clean their room instead of come to my bday event with FREE food and FREE liquor.
2026-09-12 20:11:37
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milan_fwd :
the amount of times I’ve done things I wasn’t excited about or didn’t really care just to be with my friends … but the moment the plan is slightly inconvenient or they’re not 110% into it, the drop it… 🫠🫠🫠
2026-09-10 11:02:13
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Avery.larissa ᖭི༏ᖫྀ ꩜ :
i’ve had a shit friend for blaming me for being poor and unable to give back the way she did for me, the thing about friendship that I will never accept. Is that if you expect something in return every single time. it’s no longer a friendship. It’s a transaction. Also, you shouldn’t be gaslighting people just because you did something nice for them.
2026-09-18 08:07:01
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sukuna's vessel :
i just want the type of friend that'll throw me a birthday party where do i find people like this
2026-09-10 01:42:26
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Mj :
My mom got diagnosed with cancer and literally none of my friends showed up or even cared. Now none of them are friends because I've bent over backwards to show up for them and they couldn't do the same.
2026-09-10 10:12:35
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gr :
idk why some assume that no one else is busy or having mental health problems and therefore think those things are valid reasons to constantly be a bad friend. it's so selfish & annoying
I’m so over low effort nonchalance. Like what’s even the point
2026-09-10 03:53:32
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˙⋆✮ruunic❀⋆.ೃ࿔*:・ :
and whatever you do, DONT leave the birthday sleepover to go hangout with your boyfriend…
2026-09-11 00:25:19
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Miss Claire :
I didnt wanna inconvenience my friends by potentially pulling them away from school for my birthday... so I went to there uni and hung out with them there :D
2026-09-17 05:41:21
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gati :
and for chronic ill people you do what you can babes
2026-09-18 00:14:16
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bignippleboobies :
i've come across 7 videos of yours in the past two days and it's just good take after another i love you
2026-09-17 02:39:24
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Amélie- Lorelai 🤍 :
I’ve ditched a few “friends” this year who didn’t reciprocate my energy, love, and kindness… it feels great to only have those who actually make the effort and reciprocate 😅 it’s always best to have fewer real friends than loads of crap ones! 🫶🏻🖤
2026-09-16 21:34:55
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Saturn :
relationships aren’t transactional but they are reciprocal. I’m not expecting everything I do 1:1 but if one person is putting in all the effort it’s gonna fall apart
2026-09-10 18:30:17
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winnie🧶 :
this is largely why i lost my relationship with my best friend after my mom died. my eyes opened up so wide watching her just “i don’t have time for coming to you, who lives closer than this other person in seeing every 3 days” ok! then don’t have time forever queen
2026-09-09 19:40:02
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⋅•⋅⊰∙∘☽ 𝔉𝔯𝔞𝔫𝔨𝔦𝔢 ☾∘∙⊱⋅•⋅ :
the first one is fair tho AS LONG as you say "Hey I'm really not feeling up to social interaction today, how about you & me go out another day for your birthday, my treat?" because if I don't feel up for social interaction, best believe I'm not showing up & running your party with that, I've done that before & it was not fun for anyone 😭💔
2026-09-10 14:24:12
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alt ...eaaaaaaaaaa :
for those who cant
2026-09-11 04:31:00
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square_kirby :
I have mild depression and deal with heavy feelings of isolation. And yet… I ALWAYS show up when I can. I do everything I can for my friends because I know I’ll regret it if I don’t even though everything in me wants to just lay down and be sad
2026-09-10 14:52:13
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queenie_bob :
Good friends don't make silly rules you must abide by.
2026-09-10 05:00:53
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Saree Brandly :
I'm not always going to inconvenience myself and if you expect your friends to always inconvenience themselves for you then you aren't a good friend.
2026-09-10 16:43:07
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