@csmith4621: Love doesn’t change you negativity, it challenges you to elevate and rise to a version of yourself both people deserve. #fyp #women #men #dating #relationships

Tabby Hume :

Why can’t men think this way it’s either us “controlling” or having them “on a leash” they say

Donna Rhinehart :

I did this and got the “you deserve better than me, I can’t give you what you need”

hopewessel :

“Real love leads to a life together with the best versions of yourselves” PREACH BROTHER!!!

🩷Shay🩷 :

If I push him to be better and he sees it as I’m trying to change him or describes it to other people in a way that makes me seem controlling..what do I do?

amin9850 :

100% agree my wife pushes me to be better and a lot of men tend to be ego driven so they’ll see it as an attack on them, when in reality she wants for you to level up 🔝

RFTarot :

When a man says ‘I want a woman who won’t try to change me’ it stands out in a negative way. If you aren’t open to growth, you will never move forward

Yuqui 🩵 :

See I did this TWICE in two separate relationships and both times I just get told I’m too much woman

Renzo :

My better half

Amanda Gayton :

My man sees this as an attack on his character instead of realizing it’s about his bad behaviors and not about his character

Bentley 🇺🇸 :

My girl just mean as hell @mercedes

Kelley Marie 💋💚 :

It’s been almost 3 weeks hes sent the last message I have not responded and will not respond he wants his space and wants to talk when “HE IS READY “ on his terms and when he can be fully present in the conversation. During this time I have parted feelings and don’t wanna be the last thought or option he has lost a good women

Brittany :

Mine broke up with me ✌🏼 pushing just myself to do better now

pa🌸 :

“That’s just who I am, why would I change” yeah no thanks I’m good off that

Iman Benouna :

I say “please learn to identify, communicate, and manage your anger in a healthy way during disagreements” and he hears “stop being a pathetic loser and also I hate you” so what he says back is “if you hate being with me so much then leave, you aren’t worth my time anyway”

T🐞✨ :

I mean thank you for saying this out loud 🙌🏼

Josephyne :

U try this and they run away

elzxox :

You should both challenge each other

buggiebugboo :

lvt0354 :

Can someone send it to him 😂

linds.bby.15🍒 :

What are examples of challenges to push them to be better?

౨ৎ :

what if a dude is lazy tho ? Thats just on him

boomshark :

lol no. find a person who brings you peace. id imagine there's nothing worse than coming home from a 10-hour shift and somebody's sitting there ready to criticize you for not doing more 😂

maddie kuhn :

We know that they deserve better so why wouldn’t I push u too that level.