JemTalksAutism
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SHEisAuDhd :
pathological demand avoidance ❤️
2026-09-10 12:58:21
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Micky-g :
Yup, Pathological demand avoidance. It’s a deep feeling of “ don’t tell me what to do”
2026-09-10 08:42:20
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simple_math :
And I’m immediately annoyed with the person for telling me to do the thing I was going to do
2026-09-10 03:25:17
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timtimtimtim :
that the adhd in me
2026-10-25 00:11:28
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Amira :
This is a normal human behavior.
2026-09-10 10:58:56
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Scrambledbatooty :
Plenty of non autistic people also feel this way too
2026-09-10 07:34:25
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M.A.D :
the one thing that always gets me is when your on tick tock and someone's first words are don't scroll please, guess what I do ?
2026-09-10 11:55:48
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Abztrakt7 :
But I'm not autistic and I can't explain how strongly I identify with this statement. The irrational anger when someone tells me what to do, even if I was already going to do it, or worse... If I'm already doing it!!!
2026-09-10 05:35:49
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YagirlJamiee :
This is why I say adhd and autism are first cousins. Iykyk
2026-09-09 23:09:20
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alex :
I’m not autistic and i have this….fyi every mood , response, or lack thereof isn’t a sign of autism, its a sign of human
2026-09-11 01:40:39
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OmegaBigEnergy :
Also can’t have people touch me or come close to me it makes me feel irritated and uncomfortable and I’ll get defensive
2026-09-10 02:19:01
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NoPhDjustADHD :
ODD Opposition Defiance Disorder also common in ADHD
2026-09-10 21:23:46
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2tonetom.scarleywoo :
i get a primal rage from this might even not do it
2026-09-10 08:17:57
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secondhandbeatnik :
and when you tell people they think it's funny. it's not. it's not a cute little rebellion joke I'm making. my brain is repulsed by the idea of doing something I'm told to do. I'd rather do NOTHING than what I've been told to do.
2026-09-10 06:09:18
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Debz :
I guess we're all autistic then!
2026-09-10 07:46:24
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theAlizzza :
It helps saying that "I'm doing it because I wanted to not because you said so, just so we're on the same page."
2026-09-10 16:12:51
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Darren :
Because we know that person is just trying to feel like they are above us
2026-09-10 13:01:47
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Timmy :
Didn’t know I was autistic till today 😅
2026-09-10 12:12:00
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Stace 🦌🦅 :
It’s because it makes you feel as if you don’t have a choice, it feels like they’ve taken your free will.
2026-09-10 17:41:04
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Jess L Day 🇨🇦 🏳️🌈 :
YES! This is especially true for me with tiktok lately. Any comment or request to "watch till the end", "can you stay for 30 seconds?" or to "like and follow" will immediately give me a bad feeling and I have to skip the video.
2026-09-11 02:01:52
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Magic Nutty Buddy :
Crazy how 'i need you to take out the trash' and 'the trash needs to be taken out' can be so different...
2026-09-10 12:20:48
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Helena :
yes pisses me off
2026-09-09 21:19:03
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Penny :
Demand avoidance 😬 love it! Don’t you dare telling me what to do next. 😂
2026-09-10 06:47:49
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philipbogart :
it makes not to want to do
2026-09-10 01:54:23
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Yat Pottery School :
Ask me, don’t tell me😊
2026-09-10 07:38:42
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