@coach.ryan0: They’re not struggling to be a good partner. They’re struggling to function as a partner at all. They want your love, loyalty, body, validation, companionship, and emotional labor… but the moment you need accountability, reciprocity, or consideration, suddenly the relationship is “too much.” You weren’t building a partnership together. You were providing an experience for them. #DismissiveAvoidant #AvoidantAttachment #AttachmentStyles #RelationshipTok #ToxicRelationships

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coach.ryan0
Coach Ryan :
Partner* 🤦‍♂️Apparently the “r” emotionally detached before I posted this.
2026-09-09 22:14:51
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me.oh.my75
podcast clips :
Not capable of love.
2026-09-10 00:30:52
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mammafromthesouth
Heather :
Nope, im done. The last 23 years have wrecked my self-esteem and my emotional health.
2026-09-09 23:46:38
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vodavodica
ella :
he was obsessed with me untill i fell in love with him.
2026-09-10 06:30:55
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anderkar22
Kari :
Nope.. he wrecked my nervous system
2026-09-09 23:15:07
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beachbum719
Blue-eyez82 :
I usto tell him it was the him show, all about him and he would get mad and had no “ clue “ what I was talking about…
2026-09-10 00:41:32
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jackdupp322
jackdupp322 :
It’s impossible to build a life with them and never reach any goals with the them
2026-09-10 10:19:47
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irismariealvarado
Iris Marie Alvarado :
Benefits of the relationship without doing the work to keep it
2026-09-10 01:23:51
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diannemarkus
Dianne Markus :
I’m a wreck.
2026-09-10 09:58:45
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risse_44
Risto :
Yep they don’t relate to you as a person. They have a representation in their head. It’s kind of scary actually. Feels like they’re looking right through you. Very uncanny 😰
2026-09-10 07:53:46
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genx.melanie
MELANIE :
And when you give them 20yrs of your life and nothing changes after expressing boundaries and needs, and you decide to leave, they blame you for being a dismissive avoidant crazy person.
2026-09-10 01:43:55
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earth_angel_555
True_Love_40 :
I dealt with this for 2 years. I thought I was going crazy. This makes me feel seen just for a few seconds 😩 none of my needs, feeling, emotions were ever validated! But he expected to have the same boring seggs whenever he wanted to. No intimacy at all. I’m so glad I walked away!
2026-09-10 01:26:55
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jics232
JICE :
They are bad partners
2026-09-10 00:48:33
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just.one.more.thing
Just.one.more.thing :
This is the post that hit me the most (and your other ones too have been so valuable) thank you
2026-09-10 00:15:45
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magicinmemories
Magic in Memories ✨ :
Ugh are there any normal people out there anymore? Last one I had to learn what narcissism actually meant. This time I didn’t see any of those red flags so I thought I had someone normal. Nope. Now I have a dismissive avoidant. And the issue with this is the difference between a narc and a DA is intent. So it’s really hard to walk away from a DA knowing that they don’t have bad intent, so you feel like one day they’ll really want to change and work on it, so you always have hope, knowing that it’s not that they actually want to hurt you.
2026-09-10 01:45:18
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pink_hearts12
PinkHearts :
Welcome to the world of my EX husband.
2026-09-10 00:34:26
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lovelyalways24
user8301464949710 :
Terrible people 😏
2026-09-10 01:54:35
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literacy32
Dr. Tracy :
And is often selfish
2026-09-10 02:21:00
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nps.skincare.journ
NP || Digital diary 🌻 :
They’re worst
2026-09-10 00:25:48
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donnammoon
Donna M Moon :
Iv’e got one😏
2026-09-10 00:21:47
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kristiolsonart
KO :
On target
2026-09-09 21:50:33
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tomganzer205
tomganzer205 :
sucks bad
2026-09-10 01:23:04
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kathleen2157
Great Lakes Crone :
Perfect description of my husband.
2026-09-10 02:32:22
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capricorngirl_73sunlun
Anitacee.. :
There selfish to the core and when I said that to him he said no your selfish , lol, even tho all he wanted was segs with me and no intimacy, truly selfish .
2026-09-10 09:38:20
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