Yess Montanez
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Wednesday 09 September 2026 21:40:58 GMT
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Tara Lynn :
I’ve been you. I’m so very sorry. I had to do a lot of work and know you’re okay and the perfect man will work with you through it.
2026-10-14 09:51:38
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Monika :
Did we ALL have the same piece of sh*t ex? I hope we heal and the right person gets to enjoy the better version of us
2026-09-10 01:37:29
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Kaitlyn :
My boyfriend met me when I was in a pair of old leggings, a crappy tee, had no makeup on, messy hair in a hastily done braid, and drenched in sweat from moving and thought I was the most beautiful girl he’s seen. The more we talked I thought he would run when he learned about all the trauma in my past I’m still healing from, but he has stayed and helped me through a lot of it. Most of it is very similar to what you have gone through. That first healthy relationship after you get out of an abusive one is weird and a bit uncomfortable at first, but very nice too. He has become a protector not just for me, but for my daughter too. Still getting used to it, but it’s nice not always having fight or flight activated
2026-10-14 15:59:58
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Em ﾒ0 :
Girl that’s torture like at the end of the day if you’re feeling all these things you need to heal directly with yourself and not drag anybody with u.. that’s super unhealthy 💔💔
2026-10-12 09:14:30
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Viri_Mer :
Does it go away? It’s literally like you’re describing me 🥺
2026-10-08 22:42:28
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bri :
omg! me and you are literally the same person
2026-10-08 16:52:26
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𝒅𝒓𝒊𝒏𝒂 🥀 :
holy. shit. you literally read me to filth.
2026-09-11 05:00:58
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Eric Flores :
You got a great man.
2026-09-10 11:04:11
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Compa.Alegre :
Damm I don’t get it?? Why date if you’re still suffering from your past trauma? A lot of us good men don’t deserve to go through that? It was super toxic and painful.
2026-09-11 18:24:45
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natyvelasco :
Girl this is me😭
2026-10-11 04:42:10
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𝙺𝚊𝚛𝚒𝚗𝚊 ❤︎ :
The “if he’s ever having an off day I always automatically think I did something wrong. Silence scares me to my core” is sooooooo real. Sometimes I end up starting a fight because I just overthink and worry about what I’ve done wrong and why he’s quiet. I hate it.
2026-10-02 20:42:36
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djoowop Official :
This accountability needs to be study by NASA❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏
2026-09-11 11:19:24
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Zuli :
Males two of us 😳
2026-09-10 00:33:52
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Caritobabyy :
You literally just described me 😭😭😭
2026-09-29 01:50:00
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OlgaD7878 :
Don't know how to take compliments 😔
2026-09-09 23:27:36
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Mrs.Ross💍 :
I feel this whole video to my core. So glad we both met a good one. A year and a half later and sadly everything still happens to me and he’s still incredibly patient with me
2026-09-10 11:58:32
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🌸 Tiffany 🌸 :
The overthinking, abandonment issues, and not asking for help because of the hyper independence. Not thinking you're deserving of kind normal behavior.
2026-09-11 14:30:14
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Melissa✨ :
My fear of ever starting over [Crying]cuz nobody deserves that pain they never brang to me but I had a friend tell me Melissa your not the problem u just haven’t found a man who can understand n embrace you🥺❤️
2026-10-05 16:08:01
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TheLoveAlchemist🇨🇴 :
At least u’re aware of these things!!!! Give ur self LOTS of credit for that!!! I know some very smart intelligent people who are NOT able to be THIS Honest with themselves…. You’re good! And lucky ur bf understands 🫶🏻
2026-09-10 17:38:57
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❤️𝑀𝒶𝓇𝓎 & 𝒟𝒶𝓃𝒾𝑒𝓁 💍 :
Sis I feel you I’m the same way with mine we are coming up on 4 years together and for me to accept this kind a healthy relationship is weird for me and his so patient that I’m like omg I can’t believe that this type of relationship exists it feels sometimes like it’s too good to be true
2026-09-10 16:52:41
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Josh512 :
Pobre vato I hope you treat him well cause it sounds like you need healing but been blessed with a good man.🙏
2026-09-15 00:27:59
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🧡🍂𝒦𝒶𝓃𝒹𝒾𝓈🧡🍁 :
Yes same here
2026-10-09 02:10:11
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Brit :
This story is about me…
2026-10-12 14:19:53
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IV :
There is therapy, books, courses to help yourself and trauma, always continue working on it, help you help him
2026-09-15 10:19:16
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Jess :
I get this on a deep level. I do want to suggest if you're not already find you a good Cognitive Behavioral therapist, it can be so helpful to deal with triggers. Being with a good man is healing, but it's also been eye opening. I've spent the last three years trying to heal from 20 years and finally I'm with a good man and I keep finding more little things that I need help working through. I don't know you or where you are at in your healing journey but be careful that you aren't putting a lot of your healing work on your man. He sounds wonderful, happy for you! 🥰
2026-09-29 22:52:32
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