Where are the gentlemen with good manners these days? 😳 If he can’t afford to take you out without pulling out a calculator and counting every bite, he shouldn’t be dating. You’re better off having lunch with a friend! And then asking to go to your place? 😂 Girl, what’s next—asking you to split his rent and gas?
2026-09-14 04:48:34
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Chitra24 :
Don’t date just go out with friends and enjoy your life
2026-09-10 07:58:14
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sammy_03.45 :
Financially responsible and cheap are two very different things.
2026-09-10 02:56:22
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MB :
If a guy pulls out a calculator we’re done!! Sir you can’t afford me! 🤣🤣
2026-09-10 10:59:06
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Queen O :
A man who doesn’t pay on the first date is a stingy man! Yes! I’ve said it!
2026-09-12 19:00:51
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Alisha :
Excuse yourself to the bathroom,leave out of the back door and block him. Dont pay for anything.
2026-09-12 06:36:17
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debbiedoo :
I would have paid and left,
2026-09-10 21:34:16
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lisa :
I love the fact you said doesn’t breath like Darth Vader when he eats lol 😂😁 that’s so funny
2026-09-10 22:43:00
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Margarida Martini :
Just don’t date people from online websites or strangers. I’m regularly on dates with my friends and I don’t pay a thing.
2026-09-13 12:39:18
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Templestok :
The thing is is we are a Generation X of women that dont need men and I say that to say you don’t need to compromise. We are never alone because we have a tribe of women around us. Our older years just look different than what we initially thought .
2026-09-13 01:44:30
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LSmalls :
I love your hair. it's gorgeous!!
2026-09-10 20:01:37
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Isabel Villalobos :
Adopt a cat, that’s all you need 🥰
2026-09-12 14:01:00
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laura_in_huntington :
Hell no to all of this!!!! Oooof!
2026-09-12 23:44:42
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Tricia Moore. Titch :
My daughter says if she dating someone. She feels it his duty to fit the bill. And I said why. ? She said. If I’m going to have to pay. I could have just gone out with my friends 💗💗
2026-09-11 09:21:07
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sharonfox2603 :
One thing that I absolutely cannot stand, is when someone, anyone actually wants to calculate the bill down to the last cent, so infuriating to me, and then to also complain about the extra 0.75 cents for the extra appetiser, is a total red flag to me, I would of approximated my half and thrown it onto the table and walked, that’s disgusting …. And even more disturbing is that he thought he was then going back to your place after that… what an absolute entitlement, run and run fast with so called “men” like this!!!! Appalling !!!
2026-09-13 02:33:09
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ann :
shelly..u are beautiful..set the bar high 🙌
2026-09-10 13:43:08
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Truffles15 :
don't settle
2026-09-10 22:24:43
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mojo :
HARD NO!!!
2026-09-11 09:47:07
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Helen :
no,no ,no
2026-09-10 13:44:22
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Donna :
Just go out for coffee or a drink for the first date. Don’t commit to a whole dinner.
2026-09-10 22:00:50
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🍁 Dee 🍁 :
So he just has a calculator in his pocket??
2026-09-10 15:53:31
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debbiemorrow2820 :
I hate cheap men 💯
2026-09-10 20:37:05
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Mary H :
Oh no
2026-09-10 23:26:24
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🐾♥️🐾 Tracy 🐾♥️🐾 :
Stay single…….♥️🙌
2026-09-10 22:35:13
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