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mole 🧚🏽♀️ :
Your thoughts on anxious attached people?
2026-09-10 08:03:20
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rodgerswinniejennifer :
It’s because you boost our ego. That’s all.
2026-09-10 19:47:23
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gthedon :
I am convinced these are the people who jump from relationship to relationship 😭
2026-09-10 07:42:50
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Ż :
The worst person you can attract is someone who constantly avoids accountability. It scares the shit out of them to actually sit with themselves, acknowledge where they went wrong and look honestly in the mirror. So instead, they run, shut down, distance themselves and avoid the uncomfortable conversations. And honestly, you can’t do someone’s self-reflection for them.
2026-09-10 09:22:10
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🪽zen🩷 :
😭😭😭😭😭 sorry but anxiously attached people are far worse than avoidants because they make it your responsibility to regulate their emotions and feelings by needing reassurance every 60 business minutes😟
2026-09-10 08:30:38
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Nkanyezi🌈 :
Avoidants will only learn with actual consequences. The best way to "rock" an avoidant is to be so secure that you leave them with the consequences of their choices ......alone
2026-09-10 12:57:33
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universegift3 :
Master love bombers too! Omg!
2026-09-10 06:20:33
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Mr Peu🇿🇦 :
Thank you for bringing this up,Coz it seems Everyone has to adjust,change,make room & overlook their needs just so that an avoidant can “always” be comfortable.No one should be exempted from growth,learning & accountability especially when it comes to cultivating healthy & mutually beneficial relationships or interactions.
2026-09-10 09:33:43
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Sethu_M🫧 :
My avoidant couldn't say happy birthday to me after I went all out on his birthday and made him feel special. I ghosted him from that day. 10 days post me ghosting he's back on some "I saw you I hope you're well" zero accountability 🚮
2026-09-10 08:43:15
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Amahleᥫ᭡ :
They aren’t aware of the damage they cause🚮
2026-09-10 07:39:12
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ubisi_likethemilk :
Heavy on the last part…. I will never forgive them shame, NEVER because they also move on quickly after messing you up while you are recovering you’re seeing them happy, yeses.
2026-09-10 08:32:32
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Squeaky :
Not making an excuse but most avoidants don't even know that they're avoidants. Never even heard of the word. 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 Most don't even know that there are tests they need to take or that their nervous systems need to get regulated. 🤷 🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷🤷 Most don't even know they're harming people and don't have enough feedback or data points to know the impact of their attachment styles The wish and hope at the end is crazyyy 🤣🫨🫨. Reckless with their actions?👀 Yhu. What are wishing upon to folks?
2026-09-10 07:26:18
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Sikhanyisele :
I've been called everything and in between from both extremes of that spectrum. I just give people a good laugh whenever I can now, and leave them be.
2026-09-10 06:21:15
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mypegstar :
profound
2026-09-10 07:14:37
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universegift3 :
They lack the EQ and that is it
2026-09-10 06:19:37
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Broflovskii :
well damn
2026-09-10 07:20:33
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Tengetile Zethu :
they enjoy traumatizing us.
2026-09-10 08:22:55
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𓍢ִ໋🌷͙֒ thati 𓎬𓍢ִ໋🌷͙֒ :
we seem to forget that avoidance isn’t chosen but rather a coping mechanism that’s developed to protect one’s self, you guys often use avoidance and narcissism interchangeably. i personally, don’t get into relationships or any ‘subs’ or them (if it does happen it wasn’t intentional, i was being friendly and they mistook it for flirty). isolating yourself doesn’t “fix” you-even though it might seem as if it does-bc there’s nothing around you to trigger you, you need to be exposed to these things so you can learn different ways to react and approach stuff.
2026-09-10 09:31:04
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NRP :
Ba sile babes, ba sile!
2026-09-10 08:39:23
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. :
Was in 4 relationships this year and then I just disappeared. I don't want to be in a relationship everyday, I'm the problem.
2026-09-10 14:45:58
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🅺🆄🅷🅻🅴 :
😭😭 No ! No , we don't want !
2026-09-10 08:15:27
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