Mitchell :
She wondered why I lost interest in trying any harder in our relationship. She lied to me for the first year of the relationship about who she was as a person. Told me she was in nursing school (never was) and told me about all these goals and things she was working towards. After a year of falling in love with that person, I find out she’d really been a recluse for 3 years, never went to nursing school, and never made any attempt to grow as a person (we were long distance so I had no way to know) Then, she pretty much went into this downward spiral of “it’s all my fault and I’m a pos and I don’t deserve you” and then me being patient and nice reassured her, and told her I still loved her. I just wanted to see her try to fix herself. She got a job, but then decided that’s where life was gonna stop progressing. No attempt at moving towards anything else, spent all free time at home or sleeping, and wouldn’t hang out with the one friend she had, and definitely made no attempt to make more friends. Still expected the world from me, but wouldn’t even attempt to do anything for herself. On top of all that, she always expected me to be her therapist for some serious baggage she brought Into the relationship. She was broken, and everything was her her her, only ever truly cared for me and doing better for herself, when she noticed that I was getting angry or upset with her or concerned with how she was living. Should have got out of there when she gave me chances, but I was in love and convinced i was the one to fix her 🤦♂️
2026-09-11 14:57:16