@ydkb36s14: For weeks, I thought there was a reason she kept getting up in the middle of the night without telling me. I even started wondering if there was someone else. Then I saw her alone in the bathroom, sweating through another hot flash and trying to cool herself down. I feel terrible for ever doubting her. I don’t even know how to tell her what I was thinking. 💔#Menopause #Perimenopause #HotFlashes #NightSweats #WomenOver40 #Marriage #us

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oakleighari5
target99 :
You should’ve tried to understand what she was going through before assuming the worst 😔 I’ve been dealing with 3 a.m. hot flashes, night sweats, and broken sleep for almost two years now. It’s exhausting. 😣
2026-09-11 02:15:44
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willacharli5
willacharli5 :
Has anyone actually found something that helps with the nighttime hot flashes? I’m tired of waking up over and over. 😭
2026-09-11 02:40:25
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garrysapp93
Garry Sapp :
support her menopause isn't fun
2026-09-10 21:21:03
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mt11796
Miss.Maru🇵🇷 :
omg hot flashes is no joke..I started to get it and I hate it
2026-09-11 09:47:30
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baileezola8
baileezola8 :
I’m tired of spending money on products that don’t do much 😩 A friend recommended Runica 4in1. Has anyone actually had a good experience with it?🥺🥺🥺
2026-09-11 02:50:17
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88643790478btfryy
Unknown :
Support her please. At what age these hot flashes starts. I tuned 50 . Any advice would be greatly appreciated! I exercise and sleep well. No mood swings, touch wood. I am typical Aries so some mood swings are built in.
2026-09-11 01:58:42
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feastermomma
Feaster momma :
men just have no idea what it's like!
2026-09-10 19:30:59
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deniece_stark
deniece_stark :
I have been waking up multiple times through out the night? Hot flashes are real and terrible.
2026-09-11 06:56:40
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changling1955
changling1955 :
At 3:00 am I would be sitting in the dark out back on my deck. I had my dog for company I spent many a night out there and the next day I was exhausted! Nothing worse than menopause!
2026-09-11 01:50:47
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trmnj29g5
original_x :
I really like that Runica 4in1 contains rosehip. I’ve noticed a big difference in my skin—it doesn’t look as dull or tired from the night sweats anymore, and my complexion looks much healthier and more refreshed.
2026-09-11 02:47:35
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mikessh0
mikessh0 :
Ask her what you can do to help
2026-09-11 07:23:41
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cuckoo916
Minions58 :
I am a guy. Yes hot flash is seriously. My wife wake up between 12 -2 am with hot flash. I set A/C on based of that to help her out. I don’t understand it but knowing it aint fun for her.
2026-09-11 08:37:14
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justmemyself19
Just me :
mine was making fun of me and was not supportive. now we are separated.
2026-09-11 01:32:40
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doubledimples76
VirgoRising76💙 :
it's 3:09am. husband just walked in asked what im doing, menopause, I'm doing menopause. and when I say walked in. he sleeps in the spare room. because of menopause.
2026-09-11 07:10:54
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ttpoposks
ttpoposks :
A cold drink and turn down the thermostat
2026-09-10 23:47:10
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kerirydin
Keri Rydin :
Put a portable air conditioner in the bedroom!!! Let her be cold, let her sleep!
2026-09-10 21:29:30
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user9984368491702
shirley :
Turn the air up
2026-09-10 20:26:13
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amandasbutcher200
amandasbutcher200 :
im not evan 40+ and im dealing with that now premature ovarian failure . its rough .
2026-09-11 02:58:18
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eva.stroud
Eva Stroud :
ALL WOMEN GO THREW MENOPASE. JUST KEEP SHOWING HER YOU STILL LONG HER. SOME WOMEN GO THREW IT 2 TIMES.
2026-09-11 02:40:29
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bbsummers12
Bsummers12 :
I know the feeling sister
2026-09-11 00:56:40
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shawn.valles1
Shawn Valles :
I’m going threw that too with my spouse it is frustrating but you have to help her threw it
2026-09-11 02:02:43
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rfs1966
RFS1966 :
Love her support her. Menopause is no joke women go through hell. You grow witn her not against her. Women are like computers. If you don’t update witn your wife you will grow apart.
2026-09-11 01:07:39
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peoplepersonimnot
Peoplepersonimnot76 :
DONT approach her when this is going on. Address it the next day when she's appearing to feel better. When we're in this mode of hot flashes and irritated because we can't sleep, we're not very nice. Not that the attitude is really directed right at you, its like collateral damage pretty much. These are extremely hard for women to deal with. Its exhausting and very hard for us to explain what is wrong with us. We don't want to. We don't feel we need to. So please be patient and understanding. That's all we ask.
2026-09-11 01:52:38
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user1142206845136
KimJody :
Did you think she was cheating with someone in the BATHROOM?
2026-09-11 03:08:26
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olandpanick
Oland Panick :
yeah try putting your arm around her or snuggling. won't last long but also I'm My own heater that makes it even worse
2026-09-10 22:04:21
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