Big difference between spending money on her and her spending his money.
2026-09-11 10:03:23
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cne :
Never be with a person incapable of handling her own finances.
2026-09-11 07:30:18
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priscillaherring04 :
they're not married so NTA, only cuz you're not married
2026-09-15 23:28:58
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Adria Moreira :
nta but shes definitely a red flag with money
2026-09-10 21:08:28
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Kris_hemeon :
NTA it’s your money and you work hard for it
2026-09-10 21:53:31
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RalphV🇵🇸🇵🇸🍉🍉🔻🔻 :
NTA. A man's money should always be his money. Even in marriage.
2026-09-12 12:26:40
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doodle :
nope she's the red flag that's a terrible way to handle money. you can have fun and be generous without screwing yourself and your partner over.. she needs to fix this or she will lose him. honestly the the fact she even said this is crazy 😳
2026-09-11 06:45:52
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ItsDeemac :
Unless there's a ring on that finger or you're living together, then you don't HAVE to share finances
2026-09-11 12:20:14
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Clownin’ ‘n Punkin’ 🇨🇦 :
I fully agree that there’s no point in have a bunch of money if you’re not enjoying at least some of that money. But girl, you shouldn’t go into debt for non-emergency reasons; schooling is one thing, though school debt should be avoided too. If you don’t have spare money then you don’t get to live like you do….
2026-09-11 00:53:50
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Kat Spencer :
Not the asshole, when I'm in a relationship my money is my money and theirs is theirs. I will never even have a shared bank account, my money is mine.
2026-09-11 10:24:30
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KP :
she's not your fiance or wife, it's your money, period
2026-09-14 22:56:54
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🇸🇪😈🆆🅸🅵🅴🆈😈🇸🇪 :
NTA! That girl is a red flag, run! If he offers to help her with some money? sure, that's fine. But for her to just asume? hell no!
2026-09-11 11:57:53
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stince🇨🇦 :
Definitely NTA, I had this conversation with an ex...told him of he didn't have $ to retire with, Id break up with him then because I wasn't willing to fund his retirement.
2026-09-10 21:36:45
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randyrichards226 :
no she's your gf so your money is your money simple
2026-09-11 10:09:28
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kimmy :
This isn’t going to work, there are certain things you really need to be on the same page with, money matters is definitely one of them, kids, religion and family boundaries also being up there.
2026-09-12 13:52:47
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a n a :
Its always what good does a stock portfolio if you diie tomorrow but never what good is not having a penny to your name if you don’t. Experiences is all good but you can’t pay say, a hospital bill, with ✨memories✨
2026-09-11 15:36:01
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suga.p1 :
why would she think that your money is her money
2026-09-11 12:40:38
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Alice♡ :
I think he's so right . she needs to take some ownership
2026-09-11 14:43:12
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chosenbejko :
OP is smart and sees the writing on the wall, it’s okay to not be compatible… run 😅
2026-09-19 13:47:58
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Blitz41 :
Doesn’t matter how much you make if you spend more than you make.
2026-09-13 22:47:10
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Arlene Mckenna :
Nta but I hope she stops being so generous with you - sounds like you don’t stop her treating you.
2026-09-12 15:03:38
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ThePopDoc :
You can be careful with money but you only live once. The more I make the more I need to convince myself that.
2026-09-15 18:46:04
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J :
if you're not married it's not shared ever, want to share? Get married
2026-09-11 13:16:09
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TxsGypsyAlt :
Oh honey, get rid of her. Plain and simple
2026-09-11 14:11:45
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NunyaBusiness :
Finance incompatibility. This isn't going to work.Run.
2026-09-12 07:07:04
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