@mackenzieherman: You didn’t just get replaced, they went and got distracted. But you’re awake, and you can actually realize what’s happening, stay awake, stay healing, keep moving forward. #attachmentstyle #fearfulavoidantattachment #anxiousattachment #theyalwayscomeback #avoidantcycle
for anyone going through this hell mine replaced me instantly it broke me! 8 months later he keeps messaging. hang in there and do not react
2026-09-10 20:09:17
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meesh0909 :
My ex - THE ex - moved on almost right away… then just last year - 15 years after we split, he told me “if I had to make that choice again, I would have chosen you”. What am I supposed to do with that?????? 15 years. Just *sigh*
2026-09-11 16:27:19
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cachingstates :
Girl they got engaged after a month
2026-09-11 06:52:26
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James :
I told her if she goes to someone else, dont bother coming back. I deserve to be someone's first choice.
2026-09-12 01:33:36
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jessica__fry :
This is good
2026-09-11 22:38:20
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nox :
Im starting to think I was the replacement that got discarded, but i just….dont know anymore. I love em but shit this is hell
2026-09-10 20:08:41
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Don_Bravo_ :
There’s been a baby 😅
2026-09-11 23:58:30
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Avan :
And remember kids avoidants cheat because they love you very very much...
2026-09-10 22:14:14
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thegroundedprofessional :
you arent replaced they escaped you
2026-09-11 05:18:38
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masha 💌🇺🇦 :
POV from the opposite side!
2026-09-11 04:28:09
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N🧚🏻 :
He married her[Occhi lucidi]
2026-09-11 05:43:24
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Kalepa Omega :
THANK YOU FOR THIS
2026-09-10 19:29:11
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Lei K :
Helpful!!! Thk you!!💕💕💕💕
2026-09-11 02:19:16
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Sandy :
Hey, there is a lady on here who says she’s dismissive avoidant and says somewhat psychopathic things (comes across as really cold) is that how dismissive avoidants really are or does it vary based on severity?
2026-09-11 13:16:19
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user760777049788 :
she asked for a break, I immediately shut it down. she blocked me everywhere, was public with him less than a week later and now around 2 months they are already engaged/married. 😂 not sure if this common avoidant behavior or not as I had no idea what this even was until 2 months ago.
2026-09-11 02:56:12
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alisha.unfortunately :
“My relationships are not fillers for what I’m not getting elsewhere. They grow in all their complexities” - translation - I stay with people who put up with my hot and cold behavior and don’t express their needs in a relationship we both agreed to be in.
2026-09-11 13:02:36
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Amanda :
Was with him for 12 years, he moved her in not even a week after I moved out 😂
2026-09-11 12:20:31
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¹⁹⁹¹ ‘ :
Do you mean the fearful-avoidant?!”
2026-09-10 19:58:24
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erythrium :
my ex ( of 5 years) is da + ocpd. has now 35 years, female. I don't expect that she will manage to change anything about her, because she considers si is always right.
2026-09-10 22:00:59
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Michael :
What if it's not new? What if it's her bd she's known for almost ten years and is now posting like they've always been in love...completely erasing the 2 we spent together?
2026-09-10 23:01:45
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ZuluGemini :
Im trying
2026-09-11 01:52:51
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Nat 💕🫶🏻 :
Yup, he did to her what he did to me… only he gave her a few months before he switched up, I got a few years
2026-09-10 23:19:21
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Amber J :
I feel bad for his new GF. She has noooo idea what she's about to go through
2026-09-11 07:06:48
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peaceandhappiness179 :
✔️✔️✔️
2026-09-11 00:36:21
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Sarahdemerara :
He dumped me 5 months ago and is already married as I found out this week. I’m in despair we met last summer and a year ago was telling me I was his future wife, he couldn’t wait to experience life with me and I have blessed him every day since we met.
2026-09-10 22:37:04
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