The amount of times I was asked how he died… some of the shit that was said I’m actually still blown away, it was cruel
2026-09-11 01:26:08
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lina :
thank u for saying that 👏🥰
2026-10-02 19:31:16
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user6391600246928 :
I was told ‘we’re all just molecules’.
2026-09-10 20:37:28
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KuchiNei🇨🇦🇿🇼 :
when my father passed on, someone came to me and told me to stop crying..... I instantly felt so much dislike for them.... till today😩
2026-09-10 19:27:35
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tammypipersherman :
I need this tattooed on my forehead. Lost my 22yo son to Su!cide almost 5 yrs ago. I hate when people say this.
2026-09-23 05:23:13
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Amanda975 💚💜 :
My dad told me 'to stop crying, it isn't about you, this is her day' at my sister's funeral. That was 16yrs ago and I haven't spoke to him since 😕
2026-09-21 11:21:54
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meleeza21🇨🇦 :
You are so right….grief is not a competition!
2026-09-22 21:29:50
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majesticmanifesting :
Yesss! Most people are well-meaning in their faulty ways of holding space for grief. We are not taught how to handle this well so thank you for your powerful message Jay!❤️🙏🏼🌪️
2026-09-11 11:20:06
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ALC :
Finally, someone who agrees with me. I hated when my mother passed away & everyone kept on saying, she’s in a better place. She’s looking down on you. She’s no longer in pain. I don’t care what you say. I want her here with me.
2026-09-10 22:08:58
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cndyz70 :
Oh I heard them all . They don’t know !!
2026-09-22 01:04:43
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Adele :
Grieving never ends it just goes into different stages 🙏🥰
2026-09-11 13:53:11
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user2482184674661 :
You shouldn’t say “you’re sorry “, it’s not your fault. You can simply say “my condolences “
2026-09-12 03:37:49
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Kirsty :
my husband laughed when my dad died
2026-09-12 13:08:16
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Roland Martin :
@Emma Smith Every interaction with Emma reflects excellence, patience, and depth
2026-09-10 19:45:43
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patricia bennett :
Somebody said so sorry for your grief and thought that was so polite and kind
2026-09-11 00:18:26
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Boo 🥰 :
🥺 I can’t count how many times those phrases were said to me.
2026-09-21 00:48:25
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Celia H. Hager :
Shayla to the world 🌎❤️✨
2026-09-10 18:55:35
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Mstoyaphilly :
God bless you Shayla ❤️🤞😘
2026-09-10 18:49:21
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PEQUEÑO :
When my dad passed. I HATED hearing I’m sorry for you loss. I
2026-09-12 12:30:36
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Dawn Ehrhardt Henderson :
or "now you know I feel" 😞 NEVER say that to a person who just lost someone
2026-09-11 19:21:26
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Shirley moodley 💞 :
Thanks sir yes absolutely true amen 🥰
2026-09-11 03:48:57
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Joshua Matthews :
thank you so much, we just lost our king here in Uganda days ago and we surely have no idea how his closet family feel's
2026-09-10 18:50:13
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Gareth :
No grief is ever the same. It’s personal to each and every person.