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takeofff11 :
Fr but I always just say my experience then focus it back on them by asking them questions and stuff
2026-09-10 22:17:27
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️sequinsurfer :
ur so cute i love u u look like u got attacked by a claire’s employee in the best way possible
2026-09-11 00:09:47
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idkboss28 :
i always feel like dih like I never try to make it about myself. I always try to like make you feel like I know what you’re feeling.
2026-09-11 11:39:38
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seaangel14 :
honestly it all depends on the person, thats why i always ask how can i help them
2026-09-11 11:48:05
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*☆ ash🐛ey ☆* :
"SAME!!/same.." making it abt urself "Look, i understand what ur going through bc this and that, but it's going to be ok" comfort
2026-09-11 04:01:10
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⋆♱melanie♱⋆ :
i like when ppl tell me about their personal examples bc it makes me feel less alone knowing someone else also went through a similar thing as me
2026-09-10 22:59:13
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🐺 𝓜𝓮𝓰𝓾𝓶𝓲🐾 :
No it’s to try to show you relate to the problem!
2026-09-11 01:46:58
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pinkfluffyunicorn :
one time this guy js KEPT on saying “oh yes that happened to me” and js completely made me feel less ab it so unless u dint bring it up ALL the time then ure super good
2026-09-11 11:39:03
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🎧lisha :
Idk but it makes me feel like me feelings don’t matter and it “just happens to everyone”
2026-09-11 02:18:37
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𓊆ྀིsof ❤︎𓊇ྀི :
most of the time people will HATE if you say that you relate and talk about yourself. like yes its okay if you mean it in a comforting way but its still kind of insensitive(?) idk how to word it and the other ppl who are fine with it will always have a limit either way
2026-09-11 00:54:13
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Mak :
like i swear im just trying to explain how i understand you so well and i know how to help [cry]
2026-09-11 02:03:16
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˚.🦴 ᵎᵎ ૮ – ﻌ–ა ˚.🦴 ᵎᵎ :
“i’ve had a similar experience, so i can understand where you’re coming from.” easy as pie
2026-09-11 11:05:47
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buttbaby900 :
I think when you say it in a way where you make it clear that “Hey, ive gone trhrough that too. I understand how you feel and in that situation I was in, I think I wouldve needed to hear (insert advice). You arent alone!”
2026-09-11 03:18:41
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𝓅𝒾𝓃𝓀𝒷𝓁𝒾𝓈𝓈 ♡︎ :
I think it’s comforting until you continue talking about yourself. You should say ur situation and then lead it to theirs and say how messed up it is or smth
2026-09-11 00:36:25
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Eliwhoelse? :
LIKE I PROMISE IM TRYNA RELATE TO THE PROBLEM AND HELP U😭😭
2026-09-11 09:08:51
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Miran The Goat :
I just want them to feel not alone 💔
2026-09-11 01:59:20
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iloveredsomuchredredred :
the most important is hearing and repeating what they’re saying and make sure they feel listened to then when u wanna share ask can i tell u sum like this as well i understand where u come from idkkk thats what i do
2026-09-10 22:34:43
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𝖵𝗂𝗇𝗒𝗅 ‧₊ ᵎᵎ ⋅ ˚ ⭑ :
i use it to try and think of a solution for them but i dont tell them what happened to me i just think it
2026-09-11 01:56:19
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chocolate🚦✈️🍏🏐🗑️ :
i feel like its only okay for me to say my personal experience if their situation is worse than mine bcos if my situation is worse I'll end up having more empathy🤔🤔 is my grammar correct
2026-09-11 11:17:25
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cee cee 🦢 :
I just try to make them know they aren’t alone but then I just sound like I’m self centered and invalidating their own existence 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
2026-09-11 04:18:40
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who :
thats why the safest choice is just to not use personal examples lol, not everyone takes it the way you intended, theres other ways to comfort people without trying to tell them you relate
2026-09-11 07:59:32
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꩜mashv :
I don't know how to react or what to say when I see someone crying or just feeling bad it annoys me it makes me feel insensitive
2026-09-11 05:20:28
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≽^• ˕ • ྀི≼ :
I often first comfort the person then share personal experiences to make them not feel alone. It’s also a way I cope with my problems which is being able to relate to somebody when I’m going through something, makes me feel less alone.
2026-09-11 04:26:53
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