abbyeckel
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Sean :
have you tried just telling your husband that you're going to take some time for yourself?
2026-09-10 23:23:58
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M E L I S S A ♣️ E S T E L L E :
I feel so sad for women who don’t have partners who support their need for autonomy. To be a whole person. I love that my husband has interest and hobbies. And he supports me when I need to take off to do my things. I don’t think we would have lasted this long otherwise.
2026-09-11 00:08:38
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cooluser94 :
I have hobbies now that I'm divorced. and I spend less time cleaning and walking on eggshells shells
2026-09-11 01:11:04
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Iyanna Crawley :
literally crashed out about this tow my husband yesterday… he started going to the gym and doing meal prep I LOVE THAT FOR HIM…. but at the same time i literally have no time and energy to go the gym like him. he was like we have to make a schedule for you to have you time and i was like it sooo easy you just have to sacrifice for me like i do for you….. he just got quiet
2026-09-10 23:15:26
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Duynomite :
Your choice. You can whatever you want.
2026-09-11 00:05:01
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stu34 :
I’ve told my wife over and over to get a hobby,go on a girls trip. I guess it’s just easier to complain about doing everything
2026-09-11 02:26:51
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Matthew Davis :
I literally had this conversation with a new mother today. He runs off to play online while she continues to carry the load and she feels guilty for wanting to spend time just for herself without anyone wanting something from her.
2026-09-11 00:00:53
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GermanOnTheEastCoast :
The time I took up a new (old) hobby, both children were booked with me to do the same AND he followed then too 🫤 I quit, because I had zero peace 😢
2026-09-10 23:29:45
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Mark :
You picked the wrong person.
2026-09-11 05:02:48
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user2876087784637 :
In some cases. But you speak as it is a irrefutable fact. Too.\nMany people here on tiktok , giving their opinion. Taking advice from someone who is unsuccessful will result in you.Being unsuccessful
2026-09-10 23:56:23
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Philosoraptor :
Sounds like you either had a bad partner, or your neuroticism got the best of you like it did my ex. I begged her to get out and find a hobby. She wouldn't do it.
2026-09-11 01:47:03
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Herbie77 :
Women can have the same autonomy as their partner. Women just can't take on all the household burden on their own. Of course the husband dose some things around the house, but for God sake, the kids need to be responsible for the household responsibilities (dishes, folding clothes, pet duties, mowing the lawn, watering the garden,etc). I have an 18 year old that can't even mow or weed wack the yard because it is too dangerous!!!
2026-09-11 00:50:08
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o.m.g.jen :
I’m mad cuz there’s a ton of stuff he said he would do and it still isn’t done months later and we did 10x that amount
2026-09-11 02:01:03
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✨🖤 monday jones 💚🔻 :
Actually, I do think less of ppl who take on golf as a hobby. Don’t lump me in with these understanding women
2026-09-11 00:17:28
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Jolly Yellow Nerd :
So the knitting, binging true crime, reading stacks of books, coloring, etc.... Women have hobbies. Also for that constant caretaker part when we step into take over some task and we are pushed away just for her to complain about "doing it all alone". We try to give that freedom, we are turned down, and then we are blamed for them "not having that freedom"?
2026-09-11 00:32:25
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FamiliarNameMissing :
Yes you do oh my God. Just pick something and do it for fucks sake.
2026-09-10 23:52:31
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