I’m a codependent too girl and what has really helped me is finding people that allow me to unapologetically myself. No mask. No people pleasing. No shrinking. Just Natalie. And I pray the Lord will help put those people in your circle as well 🤍
2026-09-11 14:23:24
24
•°.•K•.°• :
I do the same exact thing, girl
2026-09-17 02:35:24
0
quinn💗 :
I feel you I’m such an overthinker I have such bad anxiety if someone I don’t even know whispers i immediately think I need to die because that person hates me so I have to be nice and I need to do everything to please others. It’s so scary
2026-09-16 02:35:50
1
Delaney ☘️ :
Yes yes yes yes 😭 learning this about myself lately has left me feeling so tired. Managing others feelings/perceptions arent our responsibility…but learning to release the felt responsibility is so hard.
2026-09-16 15:38:12
0
sophia :
I’m right there with you!! and Jesus really will restore it!! Thank you for being so vulnerable☺️💕 needed to hear this
2026-09-11 05:30:07
61
Annie :
I have been someone else’s version since I was born. Mediator and therapist for my parents, adjusting my behavior and loves based on the “friends” around me or coworkers. I’m so lost amongst everyone else’s version of me that I genuinely don’t know what that authentic version of me is.
2026-09-11 05:49:27
88
Kell Caudill :
Ooooo tough bc same 🥲😭
2026-09-15 23:39:33
1
TheFreshKnots :
If I was sitting right next to you and you just went full vulnerable. Ugly cry, lost your mind, needing help like RIGHT MEOW... I would hug you... no judgements, I would just hug you and be there for what you need. I love you Ally... your my sister... and I know that THOUSANDS feel the same way as me... keep being you 🫂🫂🫂
2026-09-16 21:01:45
0
navaceppp :
You're a kind hearted daughter of God, and your codependency is rooted in your goodness. You just have to learn to properly use it. You like making people feel well, so you change who you are. You also like to be accepted universally. It's a people pleaser mentality and high empathy. These are good traits, you just have to learn to use them and not let them use you. Ask God for courage and fortitude to stand for truth and for who you are, and realize that you're a kind hearted person who loves everyone, so if they reject you, it's their loss, and you'll always love them anyway, because you're made to love everyone. Your nature is love. Jesus is pruning you, and you're going to become perfect. With love from a brother in Christ.
2026-09-11 21:31:02
7
🥀Emily 🥀 :
All I did when I was little was mask people because everyone hated or was annoyed with how I was naturally, I’ve spent years relearning who I really am and now I suffer from crippling social anxiety and I’m trying to learn to socialize in groups again and it’s very challenging cause I’m in my head the whole time
2026-09-11 09:08:28
19
youcatchingzs :
Raging codependent and fomo and quickly attached. So grateful to have Jesus
2026-09-16 16:55:25
0
eli :
I feel like the key is finding people who want nothing from you and want to fill your cup. All they’re asking for is your presence and your personhood. Actually that’s kind of what Jesus wants from us in our relationship with Him funny enough.
2026-09-12 02:50:13
10
carly :
This is so real thank you
2026-09-11 05:46:24
17
abbey :
Thank you for the reminder that He will restore 🩷
2026-09-11 05:28:23
8
bailey★ :
See if your church offers Regeneration recovery! It’s a biblical discipleship program for absolutely any struggle. SO many people go through this program to break codependency patterns🤍I’ve seen people close to me be transformed by it!
2026-09-11 13:14:17
5
thepeachycactusboutique :
your not alone girly, thank you for sharing this!! I think im starting to realize I do this!!😭
2026-09-14 18:11:15
1
Bajillia :
Same girl same
2026-09-15 00:51:26
1
CeCe :
Felt this to my core…..
2026-09-11 15:37:45
4
Haleigh Criswell :
Amen twin, yes so lovable I’m like this too we will be okay & Jesus heals me too daily
2026-09-14 23:05:15
2
To see more videos from user @ally_yost, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.