@nanowinani: (edited) didn’t expect this post to blow up 😅 gosh guys, please don’t take this the wrong way! i’m 100% against controlling ur younger siblings or kids. i’m simply emphasizing that, for MY OWN SISTERS, I wouldn’t want them to be in a “serious” relationship at such a young age, and with that, i meant those with no boundaries anymore. ofc i’m okay with young love and wholesome relationships bcs we’ve all been there and it’s actually so beautiful to watch, but i wouldn’t want my minor sisters to act married or let a relationship consume so much of their lives at an age where they’re still figuring themselves out. and no, this isn’t based on negative experiences or me projecting my own mistakes onto them. i know love can help you discover yourself, but i’m also teaching my sisters to be smart about the relationships they choose to enter so they won’t have to learn certain things the hard way. this is not applicable to everyone, and i never intended to trigger or judge anyone. i’m simply speaking from my own perspective and our dynamics as siblings. 🤍

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saintleauvre
jju :
it’s genuinely a waste of time, our teenage years are meant to be spent discovering ourselves
2026-09-11 21:07:58
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kyla.loves.coffee
kyla :
Idc what anyone says. I’ll let my younger sister live her own life and I won’t take control of it 🙄
2026-09-12 17:35:56
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lizzybabyyy_
lizaaa.bethh :
Yeah well she didn’t listen now we have two little blessing that I love but man do I hate that man 🧍‍♀️
2026-10-01 02:07:32
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ellebubble_03
http.Elle :
I regret that I did when I was 16 together until 23. I couldve enjoyed my youth rather than being stressed about a boy🥺🥺
2026-09-11 15:23:43
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ellielovesyogurt
ellie :
THERE’S MOREE TO LIFEEE !
2026-09-11 14:39:14
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_iamnotabby
bijj :
Met my current bf when we were 15/16. We’re almost 7yrs now. One thing I could say is that when u meet a man who calms your nervous system and encourages u to achieve everything you thought u cannot, your youth is never wasted. We carried each other’s weight through life challenges like loss of a parent, pet, life failures and pressures. My youth is never wasted, we brought each other to our full potential and we’re just lucky enough find and be able to build that at a young age.
2026-09-11 22:22:08
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itss.leyahh_
Leyah :
haven’t turned 20 yet and mine is the best thing that’s happened to me ☺️
2026-09-29 11:21:08
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lizrizzer
aeria ᰔ :
I regret having a relationship at 19
2026-09-11 13:23:55
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kkumyomi
bom 🍂 :
especially entering a relationship at 19 like gurl the 19 theory is real
2026-09-12 03:34:58
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xaziesv
anon :
kaya gets ko na yung matatanda dati na nagsasabi na wag muna magboboyfriend kasi bata pa hahaha
2026-09-11 13:19:20
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jxirxh
justjaii :
Girls, please do not waste your youth! There's so much more to life than just a man!
2026-09-11 17:02:39
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sherepoststoomuch
R :
but it will train them early, i started have a bf when i was in highschool tas pag ka college ko nagsawa nako kasi alam ko na yung feeling, sakit lang sa ulo. tapos nag focus nako now sa career ko. and never nako naghanap ng bf and i will never be ignorant abt it.
2026-09-11 20:23:46
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_8.167
P :
Actually, real 😭 even though I met my husband at 16, we broke up at 20 and got back together at 24. I would not recommend talaga, you’ll lose your youth
2026-09-11 16:55:08
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ireallyhavegoodtaste
harold :
ITS A WASTE OF TIMEEEE
2026-09-11 14:53:50
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omegabautista
meg :
sobrang lungkot ko nung nagka gf na pamangkin kong babae, 16 pa lang siya. baby girl pa rin sya sa paningin ko:(
2026-09-12 00:51:35
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bulbulsaur713
Berta :
True. I’ve seen someone na 15 palang lagi siya umiiyak or wala sa mood kasi lagi sila nagaaway ng boyfriend niya. Laki din pinagbago niya trying to be fit in sa mga uso kahit minsan di na afford ng mga magulang niya. While yung iba niyang mga kaedad nageenjoy sa youth nila
2026-09-11 18:29:41
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lucienniee_
Lushiyennn✨ :
true to hoyyy. as na groom ( di proud) at pinakasalan ko kasi may anak nadin kami. ngayon buo na frontal lobe ko tyaka ko lang narealize ang mga maling nangyare.kung gano kamaling ni at ang panget tingnan at lahat ng mga redflag nya tyaka lang ako nagising sa pagkakahimbing sa pag ibig na inikutan ng mundo ko. kung kelan nakasal nako hype. sisi malala dasal nalang sa divorce bill HAHAHAH. kaya gagawin ko lahat talaga sa anak kong babae wag lang magkajowa hanggat hnd pa 20. wala na sana makaranas pa
2026-09-12 13:38:00
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diannnnhere
𝔩𝔞𝔫𝔡𝔦𝔡𝔦𝔡𝔦𝔞𝔫 :
My sister talked about wedding when she’s just 19 and my parents actually like it
2026-09-14 05:15:11
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mochieony
ANGEL 天使 :
I was fucking groomed when I wad 14 damn, I have little sisters and sana nakikinig talaga sila sa mga advise ko na wag muna mag boyfriend, kasi ngayong 23 na ko ayokong sa lalake umiikot mundo ko. Like there’s more to life than men! Build a career, travel the world, make memories, bond more with other people, learn new things and hobbies. It’s what’s make life happy and interesting😭
2026-09-11 18:32:39
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dainllee
eli :
true yung not recommended, pero like iba rin ‘yung experienced na ‘yun nakaka build ng personality hahahaha
2026-09-11 18:22:02
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wan_tree13
wan_tree13 :
Gets ko na yung mga matatanda lol perooo the thing is they did not explain very well kung bakit and I noticed sa mga elders natin they tend to that sa kahit anong bagay, basta daw bawal. Now, my baby sis is teen na I really explained to her ok lang magka puppy love/bf (kasi i believe the more na mag bawal baka the more mag rebelde) but wag mo bigyan ng importansya and I remind her knowing herself and getting that education should be her priority.
2026-09-11 22:04:42
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starfreak_beans
beabaduday :
not so true, sometimes relationships at a young age helps you a lot. hindi naman kasi ibig sabihin na pag ganyan experience mo sa relationship before you even turned 20 ay ganun na din sa iba. hindi nagiging hindrance yung relationships to your growth as an individual if we don't let it be one.
2026-09-12 02:09:21
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chocolatecake.on.top
basta :
IDK what relationship did to y’all but having a bf during my teenage years actually made me free from the strict rules of the family. Before, i was never really allowed to go out most of the time but after having a bf, my parents literally allowed me to travel more, party, and live my teenage years. I would have never been this free if I did not had a bf at a young age. HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS WILL NEVER RESTRICT YOU FROM LIVING UR LIFE, IT’S ALL ABOUT CHOOSING THE RIGHT PARTNER.
2026-09-11 21:33:09
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nasiasunshine
Sunasia☀️ :
So thankful for my mom for being so strict abt rs because it literally saved me from so many things😩
2026-09-11 16:32:02
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cssycblls
Cassey :
Manage their expectations!!! It’s okay to be in a serious relationship before 20 but let them know that the reality is that it may or may not work out.
2026-09-12 14:49:16
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