@xthuyle: PART 1 | Almost 18 years with the same partner taught me this the hard way.. FULL video on YouTube!🎥 Before you buy a home, get married, or have a baby with someone, put them through these three tests first. Travel with them. You'll see exactly how they handle stress, missed trains, delayed flights, getting lost. You'll also see their decision-making and whether they share the load or expect you to carry it all. Have a real argument with them. Not a spat, an actual disagreement. This is the only way to see if they get defensive, shut down and go quiet, or actually try to work it out with you. Stubbornness and too much pride to say sorry? Red flag. A healthy relationship isn't one that never fights, it's one that can fight and still fix it together. Move in with them. Real co-living. Splitting bills, doing chores, building routines, sharing responsibility. This is where you find out if you're actually compatible day to day, not just on date nights. Part 2 coming with the rest of the list, but tell me... which one of these have you learned the hard way? #relationshipadvice #longtermrelationship #relationshiptips #movinginTogether #couplegoals

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