@bethroseofficial_: different strategies, same anchor. first, you tried to feel okay by keeping them happy. then you tried to feel okay by figuring them out. when that didn’t work, you kept telling the story, hoping someone would finally understand and confirm that you were right. eventually, people pleasing turned into resentment. hating them felt stronger than needing them to like you. but your mind was still circling them. your body was still reacting to them. they were still deciding whether you got to feel okay. the strategy changed, but you never reclaimed the anchor. this is why you can understand exactly what happened and still feel stuck in it. getting free means taking your okayness out of their hands and learning how to create it within yourself. that’s re-anchoring. get in the liberation portal to stop following this same loop with everyone! #externalanchors #nervoussystemhealing #HealingJourney #nervoussystem #innerpeace