I really want to be their friend when they’re 25+. That’s why I’m not their friend now.
2026-09-13 21:41:40
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No Name :
I’m raising my son to be the co-worker, neighbor, community member I want in my world.
2026-09-13 21:56:25
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user2970903439988 :
I always told mine I will not have the words I hate you . You don’t have to like me but I won’t have that word in my house ! Nope not happening!
2026-09-13 21:32:33
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Barbara Nambi :
💯 this is nothing but the truth
2026-09-13 18:55:21
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💚 :
I’m the same way - I love my girls so much that I would try to give them a cloud…however, I don’t tolerate disrespect, and they know that!
2026-09-13 21:19:48
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Lily :
Better not slam the door or what? Was she gonna do?
2026-09-13 20:53:09
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roher53 :
The sad thing is the majority are not raising their children to be human. But selfish, rude, disrespectful, entitled, no responsibility, no accountability.
2026-09-13 21:33:10
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000000 :
so many parents are raising kids as friends.
2026-09-13 19:34:12
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20242025life :
She is so smart and so relatable
2026-09-13 19:36:09
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Dorothy :
you are right
2026-09-13 21:18:22
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Wild flower 🌸 :
Yep!!! No door slamming in this house. Go mumble behind the door 🤷🏽♀️
2026-09-13 19:32:10
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Blondie021761 :
I agree 100% we cannot be friends a friend of our children and that’s what happens. Everyone feels they’ll become your friend when they’re older and they have their own children and they get it but that’s not our responsibility and we don’t need them to be our friends cause if they are friends, you’re doing them a huge injustice. I agree with her 1000%.
2026-09-13 16:49:04
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🌤️✨ :
She’s 100% right. I’m lucky I was raised by my grandmother who was most definitely not trying to be my friend
2026-09-13 19:14:57
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evablack723 :
my mother raised me that way and she made us move around a lot and she had a husband and boyfriends and both hurt me and the boyfriends hurt me and my brother, the husband was my siblings father, not mine. And when my mother tried that crap with my children, I told her off, no when I needed u to be my mother and protect me, u throw me to them and then justify it.
2026-09-13 19:33:54
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Stephanie |Reality & Real Talk :
💯💯💯💯 my mom said the same !! Im not your friend I’m your mother !! I said the same to my sons
2026-09-13 19:50:52
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ok :
Ok 1st LADY…🥰
2026-09-13 19:51:07
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Gingershiva :
Absolutely
2026-09-13 20:35:57
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Fennell@GLbasse :
Guaranteed!
2026-09-13 18:51:07
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Holly :
My mom told me “you can’t be their BFF when you’re raising them so you can be when they’re adults”.
2026-09-13 20:56:12
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Carl Lawrence155 :
💯 precent true
2026-09-13 21:16:31
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brenintheclouds :
Mom of 3 girls and YES!
2026-09-13 15:24:11
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Learn with Myra :
Iv always told my three girls. I’m not your friend please don’t get it twisted. My job is to make sure you are safe, educated, and don’t die.
2026-09-13 20:33:51
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RENEEKINGHOLLEY :
Amen!!!
2026-09-13 17:33:23
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Ladybug :
100%
2026-09-13 19:05:07
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