@garyvee: Of course I don’t mean “fuck your grandparents” but I want everyone to know what it represents … it represents the concept of compassion & sympathy towards those who you are angry at and what has stood out to me in the last decade is how many are viciously angry at their dad or mom but haven’t taken even a moment to ponder if their parent that upsets them so had the same if not worse treatment from their parent and often we are treated very differently and positively by that grandparent who created the negative framework that we are upset about ….. however it doesn’t stop with our grandparents, they also had parents and those great grand parents did too… we have the capacity to stop the generational pain by deploying love <3 and strength and forgiveness and understanding instead of passing it potentially down because we don’t even realize we are doing it … watch this twice #garyvee #advice #grandparents
true but our parents should've changed the cycle like we did
2026-09-12 12:33:53
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Jordan :
So we can’t blame our parents but our parents can blame their parents?
2026-09-12 19:25:22
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Red.Gomez :
Something can not be your fault but still be your responsibility
2026-09-12 15:31:06
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AshK 🐢 :
Nope. I broke the cycle. My parents didn’t. That’s on them
2026-09-13 02:58:16
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s :
No. Hun. We’re breaking a cycle where we eliminate toxic people from our lives.
2026-09-12 15:53:33
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trejhale :
We have to remember its their first time too thats when i woke up
2026-09-13 00:22:46
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Kori :
Yeah no. If I’m capable of breaking the cycle so are they.
2026-09-12 23:20:44
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🐞Gypsy Clancy 🐞 :
I actually disagree with this.
2026-09-12 21:48:14
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Happy Seven Artworks :
My father was beat as a child then he beat me as a child, I have a 13 yr old that I never hit once, our parents chose not to break the cycle like we chose to break it, they could’ve done the same thing we’re doing.
2026-09-13 01:06:49
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lilmisstwyla :
Let me hold your hand. You are responsible for yourself. You can change, be accountable, and find peace within yourself! Don’t blame anyone. Stand up and be different. It’s healing!
2026-09-12 17:56:58
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pnworiginal530 :
What about your great grandparents who screwed up your grandparents? And what about your great great grandparents who screwed up your great grandparents… at what point do we extend Grace??
2026-09-12 17:35:14
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user35582468174918 :
I broke the cycle. My parents could have done it too. There’s no excuse for abuse.
2026-09-12 23:26:40
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Josh :
If my parents tried their best they would still be trying. They gave up and stopped growing and learning.
2026-09-12 15:29:49
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Dark Side LeatherCraft :
How about stop blaming everyone else…we make our choices and pay our own prices.
2026-09-12 13:05:20
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Rachel 🇺🇸😎✌🏻 :
I used to blame my grandmother, my mother, and my dad, but I got over it because they tried their best with what they knew. They were screwed up too. But forgave for me.
2026-09-13 00:05:58
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Mikey NYC :
We are the owners of our own happiness. Gary is wrong.
2026-09-13 01:44:30
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Budgie Bay Jewelry :
love you gary
2026-09-18 19:09:45
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williamandmorgan :
Parents are children too
2026-09-12 23:01:41
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Otto Henry :
Actually the better way is understanding they did the best they could with what they had.. NO MATTER WHAT
2026-09-12 16:00:17
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Nicoles_hobbies :
Sorry at some point everyone needs to take responsibility for the things they do in their own lives.
2026-09-13 01:28:46
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Eme :
We understand it's generational.... HOWEVER, it is that we are doing the work.... Many of us point out issues in hopes and our parents take accountability when they don't and don't grow and try to make an effort to change. The irony of saying it's entitlement, pity, and enablement....
2026-09-12 19:27:48
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Wendi | Insurance Broker :
Learning to meet my parents where they are and love them unconditionally even though they still aren’t able to do the same for me - was the most freeing experience of my life. 🙏🏼 💯
2026-09-12 15:55:38
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emilee harper :
Toxic family patterns may be passed down but that doesn’t mean it falls all on the kid to fix.
2026-09-12 19:47:16
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BrookieBaby :
Not all grandparents made our Mother's horrible.
2026-09-12 15:32:02
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Libertarian Spark :
Lots of these parents don’t apologize. Why would they be forgiven for something they aren’t sorry for?
2026-09-12 21:05:39
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