@mencoded1: You want to know her feelings? Do this. Most men ask boring questions. That’s why they get boring answers. You cannot know a woman’s true feelings by asking her a direct “feelings” question. People lie with words. They reveal the truth when you ask questions that touch decision, sacrifice, and direction. Now let me give you one that actually has weight. Ask her this: “If I stopped reaching out for a while, what do you think would happen between us?” Then stay quiet. This question is deep because it does three things at once. 1. It forces honesty without accusing her. You’re not asking: “Do you like me?” “Do you care about me?” Those are easy to fake. You’re asking her to imagine losing access to you. People reveal attachment when something might be taken away. 2. Her answer exposes her emotional position. If she truly likes you, she’ll sound concerned, thoughtful, or uncomfortable. She might say: “I’d miss you.” “I wouldn’t want that.” “I’d probably reach out.” That’s investment. If she’s unsure or using you for attention, she might say: “I don’t know.” “Whatever happens, happens.” “We’d just see.” That’s emotional distance. If she doesn’t care at all, she may joke, deflect, or stay indifferent. And indifference is the loudest answer. 3. It checks her effort without begging. You’re not asking her to choose you. You’re seeing if she would choose you on her own. That’s real. This is the kind of mindset shift I teach in FROM INVISIBLE TO DESIRED MAN. I teach you how to stop guessing, how to recognize interest without constantly chasing, and how to pull back and let people’s actions reveal where you actually stand. If you’re tired of overthinking every interaction and wondering whether she really wants you, FROM INVISIBLE TO DESIRED MAN will help you understand how to show up differently. 👉 Get the Book through the link in bio. And if you want more content like this to help you understand women, attraction, communication and how to become harder to overlook 👉 Follow this page #men #Relationship #dating #datingadvice #relationshipgoals

Jo :

She told me to tell TIK TOK to stop trying to be relationship experts

Lonerking 👑©️ :

guy see this what said

BIG NEMERE :

Before asking her the question, be sure you haven’t been giving her mix feelings because sometimes we unconsciously pass wrong signal to our partners without knowing it and it pushes most people into a defensive mode…so ask the question only when the relationship is fully defined and the energy and vibe not shifted

ShantaysLoVe :

I don’t think this applies to most women these days. Most women are use to men disappearing so why bother. Doesn’t mean she’s not invested in a good healthy relationship. It just means she’s aware that people come and people go. The ones who want to truly be there won’t play these games

PPD :

I always test their true intentions by pretending to be broke, and it works perfectly

Nyameko ❤️❤️❤️💯🏹🏹🏹 :

definitely I'll just look in the eye and tell you that I'll let you be. Some of us have been bruised a lot. That kind of question will definitely let me know that you don't know how to leave. We ain't the same

Your Cap.' :

I doubt[Tears of joy]

Silent og 🫡🌎🌎 :

I ask her if she go fit get belle for me, na once she said yes

richforever💰🏆 :

I’m cooked guys

Ajebo :

☺️☺️☺️

selfless_emmanuel :

I pity you sha if your girl stumble upon this post before you throw the question to her , she’ll package the proper response still on the post and put you off guard and the deceit continues 🥹

JUST_IẞRAHIM :

Archie :

If I stopped reaching out for a while, what do you think would happen between us?

Earnwithtiktok :

watin this one mean 😂💔

itz fred :

who send me ooo

~just Adams~♎ :

She said noting oo 😂

Ti mi le yin♏️ :

she said this 😔

Junaidfc7 :

. :

😁😁

King YB :

Can I said this to someone I just meet ? we are friends for 2 weeks now....

𝓒𝓸𝓭𝓮𝓭_231🧭 :

She said we gon' be distance and the relationship won't be there anymore 🙃

Yondela Yondi268 :

What does this mean?

Drizzy🥷🏾 :

I ask mines and she said

RICHBOSS💰💸😇 :

master piece

Frank C :

Great Advice.