@_southernmess_: I dont care who I make uncomfortable. see the issue isnt me talking about it the issue is your inability to sit with reality. why even ask how someone is when 9 times out of 10 you dont really wanna know if the answer is bad. my whole life I hold myself back to take care of other people's comfort so that I am not judged or seen as weak .... but now I see thats just anither way to take your power and stay a victim. I am not what happened to me but that does not mean it didnt happen to me or shape me in ways and it is apart of me and I will not pretend it is not. if I make you uncomfortable leave the room because I will not. #sa #awareness #metoo #familytrauma #predators

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praying4theworld2change
CJ :
I am sooo sorry that happened to you! As a father of 3 I don’t understand how men can do these things!!!!! Praying for healing for you and everything done in the dark comes to the light! 🙏🏼 you deserved better and it’s NOT your fault! 🥹
2026-09-30 12:42:41
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jpw278
jpw278 :
My uncle did this is his daughter my cousin . She only recently told me after he passed away we are in our 40s now . I am shattered that this happened . But my mother says he just. Had a little problem .
2026-09-29 03:58:17
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user3307445309803
Jim Vinnola :
Im glad you found your voice.
2026-09-18 19:07:21
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aquariusgoddess73
AquariusGoddess :
It’s time they become uncomfortable
2026-09-16 12:52:26
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karenuss2
karenuss2 :
I had a friend that was SA'd by her father. she proceeded to leave her two young daughters at his hime to be a baby sitter, and the eldest daughter, grandchild was also SA'd 😳 she committed suicide before the age of 21 😭 💔 how does a mother, knowing her father was an abuser, put her daughter through this 😭
2026-09-26 18:30:25
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drritcho
Ritcho :
talk, their comfort is not your problem.
2026-09-23 14:00:24
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stormy1546
Stormy :
I am no contact with 99% of my bio family because when I spoke up about the abuse at the hands of my older half brother (I actually have a dissociative disorder and had “forgotten” most of the abuse for years), everyone told me that I “should forgive him” because he apologized and repented. They say I’M going hell because I refused. Even as he was on his deathbed begging for absolution. I told him to get it from the god he worships.
2026-09-28 13:35:20
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sammyd609
Sammy :
Wow what is wrong with these disgusting men 😳
2026-09-22 06:13:37
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lisa.todd4
Lisa Todd :
you are strong, you are wise, and you are trying to protect your other family members. keep on preaching babygirl.
2026-09-29 03:34:27
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porolita
Paola en GT 🇬🇹 :
Im so sorry girl 😭 you’re so brave for speaking up
2026-09-28 22:31:49
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jessarcherfit
Jess Archer :
“Shame must switch sides.” -Gisele Pelicot
2026-09-19 17:49:08
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peppermintmocha14
group 7 rose 1980 :
that's true u need to take care of your self
2026-09-30 11:26:34
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barbaraball39
barbaraball39 :
sorry and I mean it🙏
2026-09-29 12:00:47
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nancyjekjdd
nancy :
Society is so corrupt that the victims feel ashamed and uncomfortable not the predators
2026-09-22 13:05:38
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loving_lillith
Loving Lilith :
the survivors always end up the black sheep, while the offenders are protected, it's absurdly unfair
2026-09-22 11:12:03
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receiverofabundance
Receiver of Abundance 🌈 :
I don’t know you, but I’m very proud of you. Thank you for being brave and speaking out, you are helping others. Your ‘father’ should be ashamed of himself and I hope you get justice both legally, mentally and emotionally
2026-09-27 10:54:20
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just_kaee2
just_kaee :
I'm sorry I can't read that.. Even listening to you I had to pause the video... I'm sick to my f****** stomach... You deserved so much fkn more than that!!! I am so so so sorry... I don't know you are this young lady... I'm sorry you weren't protected and safe and loved LIKE YOU SHOULD HAVE BEEN! I pray your souls keep healing...😔💔🙏🏽
2026-09-25 18:56:39
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miss_impossible
miss_impossible :
Speak up girl, they should feel uncomfortable
2026-09-26 10:30:27
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faithflagandfreed
FaithFlagandFreedom :
The System is designed to make girls and women feel shamed, so they stay quiet. Let's break The System.
2026-09-26 20:45:24
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stephaniedee003
Steph 🇨🇦 🇪🇺 :
My niece was SA’d by her father as a little girl, she has struggles as a teen now and whenever her mother is mad at her to make her feel even more down she hurls an insult “you’re a disappointment and a loser just like your father”. I just hate people. I don’t talk to my sister anymore she is foul. Some family don’t care or weaponize abuse
2026-09-27 12:48:44
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petrusschoeman
peet1959 :
Terrible..can't fathom it as a dad myself..sick,evil ..I had a niece who this happened to and got pregnant..dont know how she managed to stay sane..
2026-09-26 20:23:40
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jimmyholer
Jj :
Let your sister know even if you think she might not believe you. He might do the same thing to her kids. Speak up
2026-09-26 12:08:49
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bookishwayz
Bookishwayz :
I’m with you girl.
2026-09-24 22:54:34
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damoncentifanti
damoncentifanti :
Never stop talking about it! ❤️You are so brave, and I can see your rage fuels you. Keep going, it DOES matter.
2026-09-23 11:34:17
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holydovestudio
Holy Dove :
Only Jesus Christ can heal us from this 💕
2026-09-16 16:02:44
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