@mathewboggs: Why do men pull away right when a relationship is about to reach a committed level? His distance is usually caused by a core fear of inadequacy. This video explores 5 questions men unconsciously process before committing, and what YOU can do to guide the situation so it creates the best outcome for what you want. Check it out, then answer this question: When you've experienced a guy pulling away what's been the method that served you the most?