I ask my wife, is this a problem I need to solve or do I just need to listen?
2026-09-12 12:30:17
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𝒍𝒆𝒏𝒂 :
i don’t want them to fix me. i just want to be listened to.
2026-09-12 04:16:50
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rgato :
my bf just sits there and goes “mmm” and looks around and then says “what do you want me to say..”
2026-09-12 06:38:12
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Bri :
i don’t need him to carry my mental load i need him to see who i am and hold me up when im feeling low i need a reminder im loved and cared for be my support when i can’t hold myself up dont fix me don’t carry my problems be the person i lean on when its needed
2026-09-12 00:17:44
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J :
I don't need bob the builder I just don't want to have to have these thoughts by myself all the time. I don't expect him to solve anything or play the part of Sherlock Holmes I just want to feel like I'm not the only one backing myself up
2026-09-12 08:29:18
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Spoon Vash :
And sometimes she doesn’t want you to acknowledge it. It’s your job to know what to do. 😂
2026-09-11 17:11:49
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Bottletree :
Acknowledging the mental load women carry is a great start. But asking women to figure out what you can do to help adds to that mental load. All we want is for you to notice what needs to be taken off our mental load without us having to figure it out for you….
2026-09-12 15:17:15
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DeanTheMachine :
what's the point of talking about stuff if you don't want it fixed. you fix it and then bam, it never bothers you again.
2026-09-12 05:00:04
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CriBi :
I’m always gonna do me. But I always want you to see me too.
2026-09-13 01:15:52
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canijustsaynocomment :
I just want him to acknowledge and appreciate me….
2026-09-12 15:31:16
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Allissa | KY HairStylist 🦋 :
“Let’s compare” REAL.
2026-09-12 03:49:49
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Me :
Ive had guys say wow how do you do it all …. And its like ummm i dont have a choice . This is it.
2026-09-12 15:35:48
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adelazalez :
🥺he’s so right
2026-09-12 02:21:31
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JSN :
So true, realizing she’s not asking for an opinion makes listening easier.
2026-09-12 16:03:15
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finley reed✨🌵🃏 :
I just want to make my feelings known, I don’t expect someone to try and fix them I just want someone to listen to me without judging me or making me feel like a burden
2026-09-12 16:02:52
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skye⭐️ :
“I’m dealing with postpartum depression I am so depressed” “me too” bro I hate you. I will never forgive him for how he’s treated me postpartum.
2026-09-13 00:26:12
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Fear_Tiktok :
if your first response to someone pouring their struggles and emotions out to you is "hey yeah well i have it worse" then you arent emotionally intelligent
2026-09-12 02:39:41
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Antonietta :
I may be autistic because I think like a man 😭 like I be trying to figure out solutions cause it’s a waste to kinder those negative emotions. Like I hear you life sucks but let’s change some things that may be causing that. Obv losses and things like that are exceptions but like stress nah we can fix that
2026-09-12 00:58:32
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Kenna ꫂ᭪ :
I just want to vent and not for responses or comments or even help. I just want to know I’m heard, that’s it. Once it’s off my shoulders and spoken out loud I can handle it with a clear mind.
2026-09-12 13:24:05
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Felicia Gonz :
Or does nothing at all
2026-09-12 02:46:37
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barbobri :
I'd love to complain about everything I do and if someone says "I'm listening" I can just say "I WANT TO BE HELPED NOT LISTENED TO" and if they say "I want to help" I can just say "I WANT TO BE LISTENED TO NOT HELPED" I love being mad no matter what
2026-09-11 23:52:16
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космический💯🙏🍃😮💨 :
And yet I still just get left 🤦🤣….
2026-09-11 23:23:14
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