i don’t want them to fix me. i just want to be listened to.
2026-09-12 04:16:50
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elite9ner :
I ask my wife, is this a problem I need to solve or do I just need to listen?
2026-09-12 12:30:17
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K😚 :
This one can have a podcast
2026-09-12 06:11:12
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Bri :
i don’t need him to carry my mental load i need him to see who i am and hold me up when im feeling low i need a reminder im loved and cared for be my support when i can’t hold myself up dont fix me don’t carry my problems be the person i lean on when its needed
2026-09-12 00:17:44
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Spoon Vash :
And sometimes she doesn’t want you to acknowledge it. It’s your job to know what to do. 😂
2026-09-11 17:11:49
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RG🩸 :
if marriage is this complicated idk if I want to get married.
2026-09-18 05:05:10
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DeanTheMachine :
what's the point of talking about stuff if you don't want it fixed. you fix it and then bam, it never bothers you again.
2026-09-12 05:00:04
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Bottletree⁷ :
Acknowledging the mental load women carry is a great start. But asking women to figure out what you can do to help adds to that mental load. All we want is for you to notice what needs to be taken off our mental load without us having to figure it out for you….
2026-09-12 15:17:15
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Đ҉Č҉.AJ_CODM :
I wanna b understood I don’t want a solution
2026-09-24 12:30:24
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J :
I don't need bob the builder I just don't want to have to have these thoughts by myself all the time. I don't expect him to solve anything or play the part of Sherlock Holmes I just want to feel like I'm not the only one backing myself up
2026-09-12 08:29:18
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canijustsaynocomment :
I just want him to acknowledge and appreciate me….
2026-09-12 15:31:16
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Antonietta :
I may be autistic because I think like a man 😭 like I be trying to figure out solutions cause it’s a waste to kinder those negative emotions. Like I hear you life sucks but let’s change some things that may be causing that. Obv losses and things like that are exceptions but like stress nah we can fix that
2026-09-12 00:58:32
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Felicia Gonz :
Or does nothing at all
2026-09-12 02:46:37
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adelazalez :
🥺he’s so right
2026-09-12 02:21:31
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finley reed✨🌵🃏 :
I just want to make my feelings known, I don’t expect someone to try and fix them I just want someone to listen to me without judging me or making me feel like a burden
2026-09-12 16:02:52
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JSN :
So true, realizing she’s not asking for an opinion makes listening easier.
2026-09-12 16:03:15
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skye⭐️ :
“I’m dealing with postpartum depression I am so depressed” “me too” bro I hate you. I will never forgive him for how he’s treated me postpartum.
2026-09-13 00:26:12
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Allissa | KY HairStylist 💎🦋 :
“Let’s compare” REAL.
2026-09-12 03:49:49
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Me :
Ive had guys say wow how do you do it all …. And its like ummm i dont have a choice . This is it.
2026-09-12 15:35:48
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kenna🧸🤎 :
I just want to vent and not for responses or comments or even help. I just want to know I’m heard, that’s it. Once it’s off my shoulders and spoken out loud I can handle it with a clear mind.
2026-09-12 13:24:05
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Deleting soon. :
And yet I still just get left 🤦🤣….
2026-09-11 23:23:14
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Luis Molina :
That become exhausting when it’s always being shared. At same point a conversation needs to be had on how to fix it.
2026-09-11 20:04:05
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barbobri :
I'd love to complain about everything I do and if someone says "I'm listening" I can just say "I WANT TO BE HELPED NOT LISTENED TO" and if they say "I want to help" I can just say "I WANT TO BE LISTENED TO NOT HELPED" I love being mad no matter what
2026-09-11 23:52:16
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ZoieH :
I didn’t get either it was me pointing fingers and belittling him
2026-09-11 19:45:29
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Lizzy Young :
I’m 5 months postpartum today …. Thank you for us who just want to be seen and heard 🥹🫶🏼
2026-11-01 16:28:27
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