@healingbythenumbers_: Breaking my ankle didn’t cancel our date, and it gave me a reason to get off the floor. The final part of this story is coming later TODAY. Follow so you don’t miss it. #AbuseRecovery #Dontgoback #EmotionalAbuse #SurvivorStories #BrokenAnkle
i think the universe was telling you that wasn't a good idea
2026-09-11 16:31:21
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Ivy :
it doesn't sound weird at all. abusive people are incredibly charismatic and alluring. Otherwise they would never have the opportunity to abuse anyone... how could they?
2026-09-11 19:03:48
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Kit the DM :
I feel like that was some unseen force trying to send you a giant sign
2026-09-11 16:16:04
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tiabgood :
what does PPO mean in this context? is it a type of protective order?
2026-09-11 19:51:34
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Aerik Tirel :
The universe legit pointed directly at you and went “NO!!!”
2026-09-11 19:48:00
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Jennifer Pickens❌️ :
if that wasn't a universal interference, idk what is!!
2026-09-11 16:13:29
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nichiggen :
If you have a protective order against him it’s absolutely insane that you would try to go on a date with him wtf
2026-09-11 23:39:54
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jenki_babi :
I think your guardian angel pushed you…
2026-09-11 20:34:42
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Rubix, Cube and Marilyn :
Thanks for this. I keeping wanting to go back and knowing I shouldn’t so taking away the stigma around this makes me feel less broken
2026-09-11 16:35:52
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🩷pynkie :
it sounds painful, but those broken bones sounds like it was trying to stop you from making a call you'd regret.. abuse is ugly and hard to break away from, and you're incredibly brave for sharing the parts where you went wrong. because that is the most human part of being abused - manipulated.
2026-09-11 16:27:09
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Kirk Daniel :
I cannot imagine hearing about a person I care about getting hurt and not wanting to be there with them.
Best wishes for your health, but man "Oh I'm sorry to hear that," was just wrong
2026-09-12 11:22:51
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Darya N :
I rolled my ankle recently and there was no snap... I broke no bones... THE PAIN WAS SO BAD HOW DID YOU WALK ON IT AFTER 😭😭😭
2026-09-11 17:47:03
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rae_rae2004 :
why is it always the kitchen floor that all of us decide it the safest (all survivors i know chose the kitchen floor including me)
2026-09-12 21:53:44
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🍓𝒁𝒐𝒆𝒚🍓 :
I don't know of you see the corrilation. You broke your ankle in 3 place, you are still survival mode, you get up and walk off like you didn't just do that, you then realise maybe somethings wrong, doesn't want to bother with the albulance when you can just drive while having a broken ankle near the pedals. And then ignored all that pain to be on time to a Mario cart game and make someone happy while you litterally suffer without help. Honey be kind to yours. Look after yourself. And my favourite therapy quote "treat yourself like you'd treat a friend". We are here for you, and even when you make mistakes, we still hold your hand to move forwards once you come back.
2026-09-11 17:24:37
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adatsklgi :
Everyone is talking about angels but I think it is much more serious than that - the cortisol, the absentmindedness, the subconscious urge to put other things and people above your own wellbeing, those I think are contributing factors to your body self abandoning. Contributing both to the injury and its scale... Thank you for bringing this experience to us and I hope you had the chance to learn self defense (as in the state of mind not the physical movements)
2026-09-12 17:24:16
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employed but at what cost :
all the stories pmo and make me wanna tear my hair out 😭 idk i cant imagine it maybe cuz ive never loved anyone but
2026-09-12 09:04:11
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kristamoberly :
Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing this.
2026-09-11 16:27:56
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porkchop_96 :
Maybe your ankle doing what it did was telling you not to do this date with an ex that you shouldn't have contact with the first place. Once you divorce them, you should have just cut off all contact and acted like he never existed because of what he did to you
2026-09-11 16:41:21
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Flick :
my friend did something similar and broke 3 bones in her ankle.
Fun fact: there are only 3 bones in your ankle
2026-09-13 00:10:18
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👾Sear👾 :
I truly believe someone or something was screaming at you to NOT CALL HIM
2026-09-13 15:23:03
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Sapphire :
oh my goodness .. I really appreciate you sharing all this
2026-09-11 17:41:59
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apple :
I think that broken ankle is a sign from the universe
2026-09-12 02:45:31
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Britney Haynes :
wait amin I have always been told you cant walk or move somthing thats broke? you walked home and then drove ur self?
2026-09-16 02:51:52
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