@adeyemiadeyosoye: I can be with this woman for the next 50 yrs. That’s how you should feel when you’re with her. It’s the ultimate litmus test that cuts to the truth. Yea, you might enjoy the intimacy. Yes, she might activate parts of your being you like. Yes, it might be fun, dynamic, exciting, etc. But if beneath all that, she can’t meet you at your depth... If you never have a place where you can rest... drop the armor... stop the proving... and just f*cking be... Then you’re left with a choice: Move on or be stuck in performance for the rest of your life. Reckonings are rarely gentle. But if you’ve developed the capacity to sense the truth... You OWE it to yourself (and to your woman) to act on it.

Adeyemi Adeyosoye

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Friday 11 September 2026 18:00:52 GMT