@thepottymouthguru: Replying to @Deborahs_Galaxy Not everything after “I feel” is technically an emotion. But that doesn’t mean there’s nothing there to validate. You can understand how someone got to an interpretation without agreeing that their interpretation is objectively true. That middle ground is where a lot of good communication actually happens. ❤️🤟🏻🌿 #UNFUCKYOURSELF #THEPOTTYMOUTHGURU #Validation #EmotionalValidation #Communication

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The Pottymouth Guru :
The goal isn’t to validate every conclusion. It’s to stay curious enough to find the experience underneath it. ❤️🤟🏻🌿
2026-09-11 19:36:54
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shylarayn
Shyla Rayne :
The goal is curiosity: “what happened to leave you believing you’re unwanted?” “What helps you feel wanted?” “Is it this is coming from an internal fear that it projected, or directly influenced by my behavior?” All of this makes the initiator feel heard with a focus to be understood.
2026-09-11 22:06:04
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natsiow3
Nat :
So good!
2026-09-12 02:05:11
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mandie7462
Mandie :
Do you ever feel like it’s just so super exhausting explaining all of this over and over and over and breaking down each part of it and explaining it over and over and over like an emotionally healthy and intelligent human…..bc I’m exhausted having this knowledge. And trying to explain it. Emotional intelligence isn’t easy to teach to someone who has….maybe…low emotional capacity? And defensiveness makes it extremely difficult to listen to hear and understand. The desire seems to be absent. It’s so exhausting. Do you ever break through to any dismissive avoidants? I feel like my marriage is HOPELESS at this point.
2026-09-12 12:29:54
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