@livingandtrying08: If your husband wanted to hang out with his friends for a whole day but never wants to make time to take you out on a date or you guys time and is always complaining it’s money .. how would you guys deal with this ? #help #helpme #advice #Love #marriage

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snfinoisesf
XYZ USK :
Lesson: people will put effort into what is important to them. If he is not putting any effort into you then you are not important to him. Is very simple really. Maybe live by these words “ If he wanted he would” Stop begging to be cared for and loved. Love and respect yourself first and foremost always
2026-10-14 01:20:56
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loudyrowdyhowdy
Loudy :
maybe he has a boyfriend?
2026-09-15 15:54:07
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blackholewitch
The Black Hole Witch :
Divorce can be as little as $215.
2026-09-21 03:45:57
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_andywylde_
andywylde :
Divorce. That’s miserable.
2026-10-14 01:50:54
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pyrmomx25
pyrmomx2 :
Seperate your accounts. Then you go out with your besties.
2026-09-22 23:59:37
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shannonknappp
OhSKnapp :
I started behaving the same. Going out, doing all the things I wanted to. I did not invite him. He quickly realized he was losing me and redirected his attention to what he wanted long term.
2026-09-19 15:21:50
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titupbuttercup
titupbuttercup :
Life is too short to beg someone to love you. Go love yourself and be free!
2026-09-21 01:46:08
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bibi_vivi_77
bibi_vivi_77 :
I wouldn’t complain. I just leave. Go find someone who likes my company. I will never beg somebody for attention.
2026-09-26 18:14:37
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dimples_organics
Dimples :
Get rid of the husband and take yourself out. I'm not about this "asking for someone to choose you when they already showed you they didn't" idea.
2026-09-22 00:20:08
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p1nkk01
Pink1 :
I wouldnt wait on him to go out he wants to go with friends then u find friends and leave too stop focusing on him n focus on urself
2026-10-03 22:07:36
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chickwithlonghair1
LuckySandy777 :
The easiest way to get rid of unnecessary stress is become the absolute best version of yourself, go to the gym visit a library go to farmers markets go to a museum hey if you like drinking get dressed up super neatly and go to your nearest expensive hotel bar you will find that sometimes we just forget our self worth🥺 i promise you when you begin to remember who you are either you leave him or he changes because men love women who are focused on themselves and their own growth🌹🥰 good luck
2026-09-20 17:33:06
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stephiek83
Steph :
As an ex wife who stayed and just wanted him to see me and want to spend time with me…. LEAVE….. he ended up leaving for his mistress after 20 years…. I regret the time of my life I wasted feeling small and unimportant. Alone is so much better and fulfilling. Good luck to you.
2026-09-23 21:59:08
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going_.rogue
Adventurer🥾🌲 🌊 ☀️ :
I would take the time to remember who I am. Do all of the things I wanted to do. Learn more, improve myself, get together with friends and enjoy life. Get myself to the point where I look around at my surroundings and realize, I’ve outgrown this. This doesn’t serve me anymore. Freedom. Peace.
2026-09-20 19:35:58
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_sunshine_smile_74
💙 Julie 💙 :
oh this is a case for divorce. don't go to counseling because you shouldn't have to teach anyone how to treat you. divorce this man because he is showing you that you aren't anyone he's willing to invest in anymore. it's okay to end a marriage it's definitely not okay to stay in a marriage that you have to work really hard for. when a man truly values you the relationship is absolutely effortless... don't believe the fairy tale that people will sell you about marriage taking a lot of work. those are people who don't understand the difference between being loved and being valued.
2026-09-20 15:18:25
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bugsmomma101
Amy101 :
I ignore him like he ignores me. I now have my own life.
2026-09-22 14:21:46
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wild_behavior
Wild_Behavior❌ :
Mine took off work to attend a birthday dinner for his friend a few weeks before mine. He forgot mine! Also, I had thrown him a huge surprise party for his. That was the last straw.
2026-09-28 00:51:52
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crochetlady1
Jen Hawkins995 :
I am leaving. It is clear to me he is his priority, and he has been mine for a long time. So now I am my own priority, I take myself to the gym range and painting pottery.
2026-09-17 02:10:34
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bapple67
Belinda Appleyard :
If you don’t have kids with him, plan to leave. He has a set of rules for himself and a different set for you.
2026-09-17 06:05:34
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cannedpossum
Okcool✨ :
I wouldn't. Let him be happy with his friends and you go be happy with your new life you dig.
2026-09-19 23:50:37
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mishmoshmushroom
MishMosh :
I don't normally associate with folks who don't want to spend time with me, so this will most likely end with divorce.
2026-09-16 09:08:27
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mylarose23
Myla rose :
this man doesn't want a partner or a friend in his wife , he wants a maid, cook, someone who does all the shopping and keeps the house stocked.. if he wanted to he would.
2026-09-19 17:39:19
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imothisisbs
Ev :
This is how my marriage almost ended. I eventually left and we reconciled. I saw someone else and he saw them take that time I so desperately tried to give him. Men live by their ego.
2026-09-18 23:36:30
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.infamy_360
InfAMY360 :
I’d stop prioritizing someone who treats me like that
2026-09-21 21:45:53
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eternal_prosperity_1111
☆L.UNA☆SOL.A☆ :
become happily single. duh
2026-10-12 12:41:30
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