@subliminalsamira: 🌸 1. You’re waiting to be chosen instead of doing the choosing. Stop trying to prove yourself. Ask if HE even deserves you. 🌸 2. You’re giving girlfriend treatment too early. Your time. Loyalty. Attention. All before he’s earned it. 🌸 3. You’re too available. If he knows you’ll always answer, there’s no urgency to step up. 🌸 4. You’re chasing AND watching him too much. Checking his page. Watching his stories. Always available. Stop. Plus, they can see you too. Hit share → SC 👻. If his name pops up, he’s probably watching too. 🌸 5. You’re not detached enough. The more you detach, the more they realize you don’t need them. If you want them back, especially an avoidant, do the BC Method aka Bowcat Method. The messages you guys send me are WILD. Some of you are seeing movement in days, even hours — apologizing, begging and asking for another chance. 🌸 6. You’re making yourself too easy to lose. If you tolerate anything, they never fear losing you. 🌸 7. You’re over-explaining instead of letting them miss you. Sometimes your absence does more than another paragraph. 🌸 8. You’re acting like HE is the prize. Love him, sure. But remember being chosen by YOU is valuable too. Which one of these are you guilty of doing? 👀 #relationships #datingadvice #avoidantattachment #breakupadvice

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