@dayby_dae: i had an admission from the ER - a female patient with intracranial hemorrhage. after i finished the orientation, her live-in partner asked me how long she would be admitted. i explained that she still had a repeat PCCT scheduled, and usually, the official result could take around 3–5 days, depending on when the doctor is able to read and interpret it, especially since this is a government hospital. then i heard him say to her, “kita mo, ano ’to? isang linggo akong hindi makakapasok sa trabaho,” sabay dabog. and honestly… hindi naman ginusto ng pasyente na mangyari sa kanya ’yung ganito. hindi niya piniling magkasakit. hindi niya piniling ma-admit. kaya yuuh, moral of the story: piliin niyo pong mabuti kung sino ang aasawahin niyo. 😭 kasi madali maging partner kapag okay ang lahat. pero sa sakit, hirap, at mga panahong hindi mo kayang alagaan ang sarili mo..doon mo talaga makikita kung sino ang tunay na kasama mo. #stoptheweeding #wedding #toxicrelationship #nursesoftiktok #fyp
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Friday 11 September 2026 23:37:14 GMT
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day by DAE ✿ :
Reading so many stories about our own experiences with guys / partners who seem to have no care or concern for their partners, napapray na lang talaga ako na sana, in this lifetime, kung hindi man palarin - sa next lifetime, may you all find someone who truly cares for you, in sickness and in health. 🤍
2026-09-12 09:30:26
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yourgirlrdz :
Fr, ang hirap mag tiwala ngayon. My hsuband and i dated for 5 years he was almost the “perfect” man you could ask.. but after marriage and pregnancy grabe parang ibang iba sa lalakeng pinakasalan ko. Men really hide their true identity and behavior. Nakakatakot. 🥲
2026-09-12 04:50:00
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rin_chin :
The day I heard my father complain about how much money he was losing because of my mother’s medical expenses, how it was affecting his work, and how he didn’t even know the basic things about her… something in me broke.I keep reminding myself that I love him. That I’m grateful for his sacrifices and everything he has provided for us. But that moment made me realize something I never wanted to learn from my own father:I don’t want a love that makes me feel like an expense.I don’t want to be with someone who makes me feel like a burden when I’m at my weakest.Ilove my father, but I pray I never find a man who loves me the way he loved my mother. Pls girls don’t settle for less and know your worth.
2026-09-12 06:36:27
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Acquila :
kahit anong pili mo if they are just pretending at the beginning, useless pa rin.
2026-09-12 05:04:27
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Rosari4 :
Nakakainiss talaga! it's not just choosing wisely girlies people, kasi no matter how strict you are sa pagkilatis, they can rly hide their true colors 😭😭😭 ayoko n magasawa
2026-09-12 06:35:36
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Leilei :
Eto pa, lalaking asawa na di alam basic details ni misis. Kay misis pa itatanong kahit na sya na yung patient. Grabe inis ko kapag ganyan asawa ng pasyente
2026-09-12 02:29:54
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MsM :
I have this test sa guys na interested saken, as a sakitin girlie. We, women should know this as early as possible pati yung nakakaalala ng small details about us.
2026-09-12 08:06:39
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ellacanlas :
to all the girls out there, im working in Labor and Delivery Room as a nurse and i gotta say that you choose your partner wisely!!!!
2026-09-12 03:06:57
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jhiejhie :
some of them are the worst just like my father. treating women like a S€* machine. i was beyond mad when mom said after her operation in her hand, this husband of her still 6r4p3d her while she can't even move her hand coz of pain. Naiinis din ako sa kay mom cause she torelated him and still tolerates him until now.
2026-09-12 10:53:34
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𝔟𝔦𝔞. :
brought myself to the ER, bleeding out alone because he had to hangout and drink with his friends kase paminsan minsan lng naman daw. 🙂
2026-09-12 11:43:59
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️ :
Kelan ko nalaman na diko gusto maging asawa yung Jowa ko ng 8yrs?
eto yung sinama ko siya mag bakasyon sa Q.C ng 1week na ako lahat ang sagot at ang sagot lang niya e pamasahe niya sa van papunta, one time inutusan ko siya magfry ng isda pero ayaw niya inuna niya magsugal, nung pinilit ko siya na magluto at nagluto nga PALPAK AT HILAW yung fish. simula non tumatak na sa isip ko na HINDI SIYA, AYOKO MAGING ASAWA ANG TAONG BATUGAN, at MUKHANG AKO PA MAGIGING PROVIDER PAG SIYA NAGING ASAWA KO.
2026-09-12 08:18:26
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_alwaysfamished :
Daming ganitong realization about partner sa ob gyne, sa er at dr. Na daming kuda ng partner sa bare minimum na ambag nila sa pregnancy, labor at delivery process ng partner nila na para bang wala silang ambag sa nabuong bata. Daming kakaiba.
2026-09-12 01:56:54
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monameyc :
Di nalang talaga mag-aasawa hayss 🥺
2026-09-12 02:23:19
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Frances, RN 🇵🇭🇺🇸 | WFH MOM :
Makikilala mo talaga partner mo sa inconvenient times. Kakaunti lang yung may pake talaga sa partner nila. Thank you Lord my husband isn’t what I think he would be. Niready ko sarili ko dahil sa nakikita ko sa ER nung staff pa ko. Number 1 priority ako ng asawa ko, kasunod anak namin.
2026-09-12 08:49:36
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HIKO_0704 :
nurse here too! pero I have story to share. Baliktad tayo, Yung akin naman super bait nung asawa, whenever his wife has panic attacks mainly because kinakabahan sa gagawing procedure sa kaniya, ay grabeh maka comfort si sir. "Babe, relax breath slowly ok? wag mo masiyado isipin dito lang kami" meron pa sabi niya after his wife procedure "may masakit ba sayo? saan?" tas sinasamahan niya sa CR grabeh alalay talaga huhuhuhu. Kaya ladies... IT DO MATTERS WHO YOU CHOOSE. OK lang talaga ma label as "mapili" or "maarte" kasi we all deserve someone who cares kapag we are down na.
2026-09-12 09:03:20
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Pamela :
Yung ex-bf ko mas inuna tropa trip niya kaysa puntahan ako sa ospital during my surgery so hiniwalayan ko agad, I don’t understand how they say they love you in words but they don’t even show an ounce of worry sayo. Diabolical
2026-09-12 04:57:40
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Daneza 👑 :
Ang saken in-laws e. Kapwa babae. Saying "bata na nga lang daw inaasikaso nagka sakit pa". 😮💨
2026-09-12 09:38:08
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MeropClinda :
Px ko sa ER nag complain ng vomiting, fever, and severe abdominal pain. After ng whole abd Utz nakita na sobrang inflamed na ng appendix. Tapos sabi ng partner niya “ maam ka OAhan niya lang yan, gagastos pa kami ng mahal tapos kabag lang pala siguro yan “ like WTF ?!
2026-09-12 12:55:02
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chie :
Me sa OB-NSD, MG at high risk na si Mother kasi pang 8 na anak na yung ilalabas n’ya she’s 48yo. and gusto n’ya na mag paligate, but Her husband got mad nung nalaman n’ya, he even blamed her wife and got mad at her na sana noon pa raw naisip nung asawa n’ya na magpatali 🥴
2026-09-12 04:17:25
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NeoChic :
Oh my. I’ve experienced something like this before. Nakaranas ako ng malalang GERD habang nasa work ako. Tinawagan ng kawork ko yung jowa ko and told him na mag-undertime na ako. Sinundo niya ako, then dumiretso kami sa hospital. Sobrang namimilipit ako sa sakit noon. Hindi ako mapakali tatayo ako, uupo, tapos tatayo ulit. I was expecting him to at least offer some comfort, kahit lagyan man lang ng Efficascent Oil yung tiyan ko. Pero wala talaga. Kapwa patient ko pa yung nag offer na tulungan ako. Tapos naririnig ko pa siyang nagsasabi, “Bakit ako pa kasi pinasama mo?” Umiiyak na ako sa ER nun, and honestly, hindi ko na alam kung dahil ba sa sobrang sakit or dahil I felt so alone despite having someone with me.
2026-09-12 10:40:26
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chadoestiktok :
My baby daddy na hindi pumunta nung nanganak ako kasi may trabaho raw sya. The following day before kami madischarge pinapapunta ko sya para pumirma sa cert of live birth ng bata tapos ganyan sinabi nya hahahha
2026-09-12 09:59:39
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RoselleAnnnnee :
May patient kami na buntis tapos mali yung naencode na name, pinabago namin sa asawa/bantay nya. Nung nabago mali parin jusq di nya pala alam fullname at spelling ng pangalan ng asawa nya jusq kung ano anong pangalan yung sinabi.
2026-09-12 06:53:03
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azel :
same experienced sa kasabayan ko na buntis na babae sa clinic ng doctor ko, pinauna ko sila kase buntis nga tapos nung pina pa fill up na ang lalaki bigla niyang inabot sa babae pagka wala ng assistant ni doktora, ibinigay niya sa buntis tapos biglang umalis kase mag sisigarilyo daw muna siya. mind him, parang naiiyak pa ang asawa niya. inalalayan nalang ng mga andoon din kase nahihirapan maglakad. tas nung pauwi na sila ang daming reklamo ng lalaki kesyo daw may trabaho pa raw siya, bakit daw pina absent siya. tinawag pa na walang kwenta. garapal talaga ng mukha niya. kalumgkot.
2026-09-12 08:03:54
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Nabï :
Marriage is a real gambling. 😅 Based on my 9 years relationship, kahit anong green flag minsan lalabas at lalabas din kulay ng lalaki pag nawala ang integrity sa self, biruin mo naoperahan ako total thyroidectomy super duper to highest level ako inalagaan ng asawako, naiyak pa nung sinabi ng Doctor na possible mawala na yung boses ko kase may natamaan na nerve sobrang dikit nung bukol at sobrang lungkot at pagaalala nya tapos after 2yrs at okay na ako aba'y nakipag ONS na sa dating ka work dahil binigyan lang ng 1 week na attention, habang ako fighting everyday sa vertigo ko, lumakas ang loob mag cheat for a week, ending sira ang mental health ko [Tears of joy]
2026-09-12 08:32:57
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