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Mr. Justine :
PERO PRE MAUUBOS KA
2026-09-14 13:19:02
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For me loving an avoidant person isn’t for the weak. It takes patience, understanding, and a strong heart. they’re not cold they’re just scared. scared to get comfortable, scared to commit, scared to feel the same pain again. they love you, they care about you, but sometimes they don’t know how to show it. as an anxious person, I know how hard that is. we overthink. we need reassurance. we crave closeness. kaya loving someone avoidant while being anxious feels like loving someone who speaks a different emotional language eh. But i stay. i try. i choose to understand. If you’re anxious like me, be strong. hindi madali, pero hindi imposible. trust the process, diba? just don’t forget being strong also means protecting your own heart.
2026-09-12 13:23:53
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Kris :
Mahirap kapag avoidant ang partner mo at anxious ka. Kailangan talaga ng deeper understanding, patience, at empathy. 3 years na kami ng LDR partner ko. Noong una, hindi ko alam na avoidant siya. Napansin ko na kapag overwhelmed siya or may problema, tendency niya ay manahimik at mag-pull away. Eventually, naintindihan ko na hindi siya naturuan noon kung paano handle ang emotions niya. Masakit sa part ko kapag silent siya dahil umaatake ang anxiety ko. Pero natutunan ko na hindi ko kailangang habulin siya. I respect his space and tell him, “When you’re ready to talk, I’m here to listen. During our almost 3 weeks of no communication, I focused on myself,nag-gym, nanood, at nag-improve ng sarili ko. Eventually, siya rin ang nag-reach out at humingi ng sorry. My advice: Don’t try to change an avoidant partner. Understand them, but don’t lose yourself in the process. Give them space, match their energy, and focus on yourself. If the love is genuine, both people will eventually find their way back,but effort and communication should come from both sides.
2026-09-15 02:18:34
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Aza :
kaya ako iniiwan eh 😢😢😢
2026-10-11 07:29:51
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Elie. :
avoidant needs space, just like the girl who i’ve been talking to. she has avoidant attachment while i have anxious attachment, i think the best way to do is to not disturb them and just continue with your normal routine, because even though they cannot be reached out, they still care. they still love us, it is just it’s their way of coping :))
2026-10-13 22:37:49
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ajspammm___ :
Ganyan den sinabe ko e, pero ngayon kinain ko lng sinabe ko hahaha nakakaubos den
2026-09-15 16:23:35
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B :
diko kinaya, laging tinataboy, laging pinag sasabihan ng masasakit, minumura, at sinasabing ako lang daw yung may gusto, kaya yun HAHAHA
2026-09-13 05:14:21
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ambotyaay :
We haven't talked for a day. Mag reach out pa din ba ako? Eh kaya nya nga akong hindi i reach out eh
2026-10-08 12:37:48
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•franciene• :
may ganto pabang lalake ngayun!
2026-09-14 06:50:01
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_.yuki :
kung baga "LOVING AN AVOIDANT IS NOT FOR THE WEAK"
2026-09-14 12:45:41
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🍡 :
ohh… to experience a love like this 🥺🥺
2026-09-13 14:52:32
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whatthefreak_elio :
Wag HAHAHAHA ket ilang beses nyo yan e t try d talaga yan mag babago if ayaw nyang baguhin pagka avoidant nya sayo
2026-09-12 01:12:21
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۶ৎ :
parehas kaming may avoidant, pero nong umiral yung pagiging avoidant nya nag long message ako para ma feel nya na kahit may avoidant sya kaya kong mag stay sakanya at binigyan ko sya ng space tas nong umiral yung pagiging avoidant ko di manlang ako kinausap direct block:)
2026-09-15 05:12:12
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Aoi. :
trust me, mauubos ka like me kahit ilang beses ko subukan, ilang beses ko ipilit na mahal na mahal ko sya at pinapakitang consistent ako, akala ko nga din hindi ako susuko ehh kasi hindi ako ganun kadaling sumuko then yet ayun, yung last long message nya para pahintuin akong mahalin sya, hindi ko na nagawang replyan pa kasi sinend nya yung message na yon after ko sya batiin ng happy birthday
2026-09-15 04:57:10
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Ericson Aseneta :
btw 5 months na kami ng gf ko na may avoidant attachment any tips?
2026-09-13 12:00:01
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Annbaluyot :
Ya nakaka ubos sya pero kinakaya ko mahal ko eh
2026-09-18 19:41:24
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Arc. :
sa mga halimaw jan, stop nlng kayo. mauubos lng kayo jan maniwala kayo :>
2026-10-11 02:54:52
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unbothered :
sa totoo lang nakakasira sya ng utak, di lang puso, damay pati utok, ni nalimutan ko pano kumain
2026-09-13 09:32:25
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user@19566291047191037/ :
kahit gaano mo pa siya kamahal, kahit gaano ka pa niya kamahal, mas mahal niya pa rin sarili niya. Choose someone who would rather choose to lose their ego than to lose you.
2026-09-15 06:40:04
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taroo :
ohhh pleasee stop this kasi alam naman nating walang kahit sino ang willing mag stay sa taong unsure, right? kakainin mo rin yang sinabi mo eh trust me... gasgas na sa'kin/sa'min yung ganyang linya:():
2026-09-16 15:01:32
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Kerbsss :
pero pre binatawan kuna e
2026-09-13 10:08:29
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riri :
loving an avoidant is not for the weak mauubos ka, yes dun na tayo sa hindi mo siya kaya sukuan pero what if one day ikaw yung susukuan niya on ramdom day. pano ka?
2026-09-30 14:13:41
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𝙑𝙞𝙣𝙯𝙯 :
nakakaubos tol
2026-09-15 06:10:43
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NOCTIS :
rekta na pre mauubos ka nyan HAHAHA
2026-09-14 18:28:16
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Tarroza :
walang effect yan sa mga avoidant
2026-09-15 07:20:43
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