Luvbug :
Trust me, I used to think the SAME exact thing. I hated kissing my ex girlfriends, and I was afraid that walking into a new relationship, I wouldn’t enjoy it like before. I genuinely dreaded the day I would have to kiss them. It always felt dark and made me feel trapped. The guy I’m dating now waited an entire month before we kissed, I was communicative to him the entire time. I told him about my past, and that I’ve never liked making out before. He waited, respected me, created safe words and had check ins. For my first kiss with him, we made out for two hours just rolling around the floor and leaving hickeys. I never thought I would like it, and now I LOVE it. I didn’t feel fireworks, I just felt enormous amounts of happiness. Find someone who will wait for you to set the pace, respect your boundaries, and eventually, respect that being physically intimate isn’t a guarantee in a relationship, just a bonus. I feel as if an emotional connection makes the physical sense more rewarding. And if you come to realize that you genuinely don’t like it and find that it’s just not for you, find alternatives to show your partner love and let them know what makes you feel loved ❤️❤️❤️❤️you’re not abnormal for not liking it, and don’t force yourself to enjoy it in deal of missing out. It’s meant to be enjoyable, so find someone you genuinely enjoy
2026-09-15 18:45:08