@anxiouslyalej: Do I like the person I’ve become around this person? Before you ask whether a relationship is worth saving, ask that. When his presence in your life makes your goals easier to reach, protect it. And if you keep meeting a smaller version of yourself as the relationship progresses. My client met him freshman year at her dream university, and for years he was closer to her than anyone. She wanted things to work out badly. After graduation he took a job in London, and she quietly applied for jobs in the same city without telling him, hoping it would finally be their turn. When she got the job and moved there, he finally started taking her seriously, and they got engaged. Then his mom decided the colour she’d picked for the flowers wasn’t flattering on her and asked her to change it. My client said no, and he got upset with her. She told him, I did all of this for you and I can’t pick the flowers to my own wedding. He said, I never asked you to. She realized just how much she had been abandoning herself for a man who wasn’t fully choosing her or protecting her after everything that she had invested into this relationship working out. The part she couldn’t get past was that he was right. She moved a thousand miles for him, and when he had to move an inch, he wouldn’t. So she called it off and moved home. It’s okay to get everything you wanted and for it to not be as fulfilling as you thought it would be. All paths lead back to you choosing yourself. tell me if you relate to this in the comments! If you want to learn how to stop self abandoning, COMMENT: MASTERCLASS and I’ll DM you the link. Keywords: is my relationship worth saving, signs to leave a relationship, choosing yourself, self abandonment in relationships, one sided relationship, dating advice for women, relationship psychology, know your worth, walk away, engagement called off #relationships #womensdatingadvice #walkaway #datingadvice #datingforwomen

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