this! what i always do is always says "ha?" kunwari di ko gets. then let them explain their "joke" only for them to be embarassed kasi hindi naman talaga nakakatawa
2026-09-12 09:44:47
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sissy ⟡˖ ࣪ :
mga tao sa college ganyan
2026-09-12 10:40:45
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Butterscotch :
here's what I say/do when someone does that:
1. Don't laugh bcoz it's not funny, I just stare at them with a confused look. cuz what's funny??
2. "Yeah, it's not for everyone. That's why I can pull it off and you probably can't"
3. if they say "I could never" I reply "Yeah, you could never" in a giggly way
2026-09-12 15:17:15
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Kendra 🎗️💛 :
Mapang-asar people literally don't have a personality and need to get hobbies other than nitpicking and mocking others. I'm glad I'm comfortable with myself to always respond "You should look at yourself before projecting onto others". They disguise themselves as 'friends'... but honestly we don't have enough space for these problematic behaviours.
2026-09-12 12:33:57
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𝒮 :
I know someone like this. Registered Psychometrician and Lawyer siya. Having prestigious titles does not cure the fact that you’re disgusting 🙂
2026-09-12 11:59:21
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cherrybanana 🍒🍌 :
Ang ganda mo ate ano nga snsbe mo
2026-09-12 15:09:59
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Ashl33 :
Literally this. they fucking gaslight you from childhood to adulthood that its not that deep bro😭😭
2026-09-12 14:09:03
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eli 𝄞 :
i don't know if this is related but when someone comments on ur outfit and says "saan ka pupunta? party?" then laughs it off. it feels like you're overdressed suddenly. 😭
2026-09-12 12:24:44
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kkjddexc :
How do u combat this? ☹️☹️I have a gay friend and sobrang mapangasat and mapangpuna siya. If you go against him, talagang mang-aaway siya or whatever. Kaya lumalayo na ako sa kanya
2026-09-12 11:29:51
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K :
Recently confronted a friend about this and at the end of the argument, they told me that me fighting back is the reason why my ex left me 😭
2026-09-12 10:23:35
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HUHW :
and if ur nonchalant or dont try to laugh with them they get so mad bc they cant get a reaction out of u lmao
2026-09-12 09:59:11
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syd :
ok but make up tea
2026-09-12 11:23:09
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leia ✿ :
even worse when the people around them continuously tolerate the behavior and eventually adapt the same trait 😭
2026-09-12 13:42:52
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blooming_wish :
mrami akong kilalang ganito, makapag salita akala mo kung sino
2026-09-12 14:29:06
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capybara lover :
then their so-called colleagues will tell you "hayaan mo lang yan ganyan talaga sya"
2026-09-12 10:35:01
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lllllissuchallllll :
me na hindi tumatawa or parang naka ? lang yung reaction irl pag lowkey bullying. tapos ginawan ako ng issue na ang boring ko, mahirap pakisamahan, masungit etc etc. kasi hindi ko siya pinapansin HAHAHHAHA. see how their real issues within themselves start to show up even though you’re just minding ur business. tell them off or stop tolerating them !
2026-09-12 14:35:28
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shdtd :
Thank you so much for speaking up on this
2026-09-12 10:44:12
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chie :
i know a lot of people who disguise bullying as "light hearted jokes" so i always play dumb so that they wont get the reaction they want from me
2026-09-12 14:20:29
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joys 🛋️ ⋆.˚ :
i actually cut off a whole friend group over this 😭 it’s one thing when one person keeps teasing you about everything, but when the whole group just laughs along and nobody says anything??? and to this day they still think i’m just sensitive and “that’s just how they are” lol
2026-09-12 11:46:57
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✨KP✨ :
i was called "too sensitive" when I didn't get that it was "banter"
2026-09-12 10:35:57
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butchay :
Ako lang ba yung nang aasar lang sa tao pag sila ang nauna , gaganti talaga ako pero doble 😂🥹
2026-09-12 11:47:45
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Chae :
omg I just realized how normalized this behavior is sa mga big friend groups. back then, I was mostly the center of jokes and I thought it was normal and just have to go with the flow. but looking back now, every jokes are lowk making fun of me 💀 I'm so happy I was able to cut the group off because I was mentally unhealthy at that time
2026-09-12 10:20:21
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atf023 :
they are insecure usually and bothered by something they cant control so nagpoproject or they take it out on someone because again they are weak on inside :). Walang kasalanan un mga target nila
2026-09-12 10:18:40
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