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Dave Newstead 🌻🇬🇧 :
Very well put, and sorry for your experiences. It was so damn confusing how mine would argue with me about my own interests. Refuse to accept what I liked and that my tastes changed between 16 and 30. The most baffling behaviour. 1 year NC 🙂
2026-09-12 10:55:41
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Evangelina :
They project their own shame, unacceptable traits, and perceived failures onto the person who activates those feelings in them in the first place. When your mother sees you thriving, it can confront her with a version of herself she struggles to accept. By devaluing you or rewriting the narrative around you, she can reduce that cognitive dissonance and protect her own self-image. In her internal world, your success isn’t simply your success—it threatens the hierarchy she needs to maintain. She needs to feel superior to you, because your thriving forces her to confront the possibility that you can become everything she believes she should have been.
2026-09-12 16:58:12
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room2breathe1 :
"I don't remember that" is the most common one I hear...
2026-09-12 10:54:00
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paulka1989 :
I’ve realised it’s always a projection and extension of themselves. My mother has never seen me as a person with a separate identity and circle. She never cared about my passion, interest, social circle. In fact I think it was annoying her to know that I have a great life as an immigrant and I don’t struggle like she would love me to. She hated the fact that I don’t need her help. Our last conversation proved it. I had a rough time and I was struggling and her only response was that I will come back home like she was waiting for it. Cut off and I’ve been so much better since then.
2026-09-12 11:38:06
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Leaf Mancini 🇰🇷🤍✨ :
because of deep jealousy, gaslighting, resentment and projection.
2026-09-13 00:59:02
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QVEENS :
My mum has this weird narrative in her head I don’t go to the gym and I’m balding. I have a huge head of hair and haven’t ever experienced hair loss, but that’s the narrative she has in her head. Meanwhile they are both true about her
2026-09-12 14:55:42
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Sunshine Rose :
Yes! 🤨 It's psychological warfare
2026-09-13 08:42:27
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🐈🌈nataleeentwistle🏳️🌈🐈⬛ :
I hear you.... did they ever do the backhanded compliments so would they say some thing nice or compliment you then do but you could of sorted your hair out or you could lose a few pounds it's keeping that control and putting themselves on to you so when they said you have no friends it was they had no friends. I'm a fellow no contacter my DMs open if you ever need much love X X x
2026-09-12 10:57:44
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nilanyla :
WHAT IS THIS CALLED???? Holy Toledo
2026-09-12 21:51:32
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Chrissy :
Sorry. I relate 🙏
2026-09-13 08:08:52
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see yous down the front :
yeah, it’s why I do a lot of things on my own and don’t involve my family. I’ve tried but I don’t know. They just kind of live in that world where they kinda speak about me in a certain way belittle me because I’m that SIGHT impaired member of the family, I’m legally blind and a lot of of the family seem to think that that equals mentally impaired so they’ve treated me a certain kind of way AND I just distanced myself from it to be honest
2026-09-12 10:55:14
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Laura Denize :
Your pain doesn’t become less real because someone dismisses it.
2026-09-15 09:27:18
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silkabelli :
The projection is so strong in them
2026-09-23 15:04:45
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Nicole | AuDHD Home Educator :
My mother was exactly like this and yes, it’s very confusing.
2026-09-12 17:33:05
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Yaz :
My mum negates everything about me! Down to abuse she saw and said down to who I am as a person
2026-09-12 15:31:52
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Melissa Munro :
my mother is the complete opposite but the same 🙃
2026-09-12 16:48:24
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stefanlange758 :
mom said get a hobby go to gym 😂 on the same day I workout 😅
2026-09-12 15:03:28
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BlueSeaHorseGirl7 :
Its deeply invalidating they negate our experience they negate who we are to suit their f up narrative 💗💚
2026-09-12 11:52:14
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ctrl_alt_del_my_ex :
Because they think you are of lower value or capability than them. They don’t hear any new information about you that’s different than how they are. Everytime I would have a serious conversation with my mom, sit her down and explain she would physically check out, gaze glancing totally floating absolutely not in the room. And there’s nothing medically wrong with her she’s a very capable engaged adult. They do it on purpose because they don’t respect you, they don’t see you valuable and consider you beneath them.
2026-10-15 06:45:55
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