@chronically.lola: There’s a strange kind of grief that happens when your illness stops feeling urgent to everyone except you. In the beginning, people ask questions. They want updates. They tell you they hope you get answers. Then months become years. And somewhere along the way, the check-ins get quieter. Meanwhile, you’re still waking up every morning negotiating with the same body. Still calculating what you can physically handle. Still wondering whether this symptom is “normal for you” or something you shouldn’t ignore. Still trying to build a life around something you never asked to carry. You didn’t get better. Everyone else just got used to you being sick. And those are two very different things. #ChronicIllness #ChronicPain #InvisibleIllness #ChronicallyIll

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cher.with.crps
CherFightsCRPS :
Yes so true ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹
2026-09-14 05:11:29
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prudieandethel_bundles
prudieandethel :
This is the very worst part...
2026-09-14 07:41:12
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staycee225
Stacey :
It’s like the pain you experience day in and day out becomes insignificant. It’s easily dismissed because it’s your normal. Meanwhile your expected to sympathize with someone’s acute pain while your chronic pain is tearing at the little bit of self you still have left… it’s a cruel world and an even crueler existence living this chronically ill life! Thank you for sharing and articulating something I’ve felt for sometime but struggled to put into words. You are not alone 🧡💜🧡💜
2026-09-12 16:26:56
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a_walkingmedicaldisaster
HavenlyAccents :
AAAAAAAMEN!!! Since my chronic illnesses have gotten worse, no one checks in on me or asks me how I am doing or how I am feeling anymore 🥺 All my “friends” & “family” have ghosted me and have stopped talking to me, calling me, and texting me. It’s like I don’t matter to anyone anymore. What they fail to realize is I can drop dead at any moment due to my serious heart condition and they would all be standing above my casket weeping and crying, begging for just one more day with me. Well…they had plenty of chances when I was still alive.
2026-09-12 22:41:14
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daymarie76
Dana🎗🧡 :
All of this!!!! Ten years in and I am tired. Its so hard waking up in pain everyday and having people dismiss it b/c you seem fine (masking at its finest) as our world grows smaller by the day.
2026-09-13 15:56:47
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genoharlow
geno harlow :
True that !! been going on almost 8 years. I'm done! 😳
2026-09-13 01:20:49
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mamagwen1973
MamaG73❌ :
💜💜💜I see you.
2026-09-12 16:19:04
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andreamanoogianro
Lucy's Mama ♥️ 🐾 :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-09-12 21:15:58
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[Red heart][Red heart][Red heart]
2026-09-12 20:32:06
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